Fate can be the compass.

DON'T STRUGGLE WITH FATE

Life is full of uncertainties. A lot of times we try to control our destiny and struggle against fate. We want to believe that we have control over everything that happens in our lives, but the truth is that some things are beyond our control and they are best left to unfold than to try tampering with. Sometimes, fate has a plan for us that we cannot change no matter how hard we try. When we struggle against fate, we can become stressed, anxious, and unhappy.

We might think that if we just work harder or push harder, we can change the outcome. But sometimes, struggling against fate only make things worse. It is important to remember that there are some things we simply cannot change, no matter how hard we try. Instead of struggling against fate, we should focus on what we can control. We can control how we react to the situations that are presented to us. We can choose to respond with positivity and grace, even when faced with adversity.

We can also choose to seek out the lessons that fate is trying to teach us. When we accept the situation and allow it to teach us, we can grow as individuals. Accepting fate does not mean that we give up on our dreams, goals, and aspirations. We can still work towards the things we want, but we must also understand that the outcome is not entirely within our control. We should focus on what we can control and be mindful of the lessons we are learning along the way, then we would find peace and fulfillment in our lives.

Struggling against fate can be exhausting and unproductive. We should rather embrace fate, while working towards what we really want for ourselves. Sometimes fate has a way of redirecting us in the path that we should go. It can be the compass that points us to the path that leads to our breakthrough. We must approach life with and open mind, and a heart of willingness to adapt to the leading and direction of fate, while hoping to reach our desired destination.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.