Be true to yourself.

THE DANGER OF SELF-DECEPTION

Self-deception is a dangerous trap that can have devastating consequences. We can delude ourselves into thinking that what we want is what is best for us. We twist and distort facts until they fit our narrative, ignoring evidence that contradicts our beliefs. This mental distortion can lead us to make poor decisions that harm us and those around us. Self-deception often arises because we don't want to confront uncomfortable truths. 

We hold on to beliefs that make us feel good, regardless of how baseless or irrational they are. We don't want to confront our fears, flaws, or imperfections, so we deceive ourselves into thinking that we are better than we truly are. This can have disastrous consequences in different aspects of our lives. In relationships, self-deception can lead to a lack of introspection and failure to see our own contribution to problems within the relationship. This can result in a lack of accountability and the inability to resolve conflicts and improve communication.

Self-deception can lead to complacency and resistance to change. We cling to our comfort zones and refuse to take risks or try new things, limiting our opportunities for growth and development. It can also lead to denial of our own faults or areas for improvement. This can prevent us from taking the necessary steps to achieve our goals and can even set us back in our personal growth journey.

It will become difficult for a self-deceiving person to recognize and address the issues he is facing. We can become so invested in our own delusions that we become blind to the reality. It takes self-awareness and a willingness to confront uncomfortable truths to break the cycle of self-deception. It is important to question our beliefs and assumptions and seek out alternative perspectives. We must learn to listen to feedback, even when it is not easy to hear, and be open to constructive criticism, only then can we begin to live an authentic and fulfilling life.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.