Monday, 20 May 2024

Don't be a promise breaker.

KEEP YOUR PROMISES

A man who cannot keep his promises is a man who cannot be trusted. Keeping promises is an important aspect of building trust and maintaining healthy relationships, both in our personal and professional lives. When we make a promise, we are making a commitment to follow through on something we have said we will do. It is a reflection of our integrity and character, and a broken promise can have significant consequences on our relationship with people.

When we make a promise, we need to take responsibility for our words and actions. This means being realistic about what we can and cannot accomplish, and not overcommitting ourselves. It may be tempting to make promises in order to please others or to avoid conflict, but this can backfire if we are unable to follow through on those promises. Some people make promises with no intention of any kind to keep that promise. Sometimes, to elevate and massage their ego beyond what they really are, giving them a false feeling of importance.

Following through on promises requires discipline and accountability. It may involve setting reminders or establishing routines to ensure we stay on track and meet our commitments. It also involves being proactive in communicating with the parties involved if there are any obstacles or challenges that may prevent us from fulfilling our promises. Breaking a promise erodes trust and can damage relationships. It is important to be honest and upfront if we are unable to fulfill our promises, and to communicate this as soon as possible with those who are affected by it.

Apologizing and making amends can help to rebuild trust, but it may take time to regain the level of trust that was previously established. Keeping promises is not just about fulfilling our commitments, it is about maintaining our integrity and building trust with others. Keeping promises requires us to be accountable and honest to ourselves. When we make a promise, we need to take it seriously and do everything in our power to fulfill it. This will help us build a reputation that reflects our reliability, trustworthiness, and commitment to others.


Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

No comments:

Post a Comment