Master the art of communication.

EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION GUARANTEES SUCCESS

Communication is a vital component of any successful endeavor. Whether in personal relationships, business partnerships, or even in politics, effective communication is key to achieving desired outcomes. Being able to communicate our ideas, thoughts, and feelings clearly and concisely, can help us build trust, foster understanding and create strong relationships with those around us.

Good communication skills are essential to achieving success in business and professional environments. Good communication between employees, managers, and customers, can lead to increased productivity, better decision making, and enhanced customer satisfaction. A team that communicates effectively can collaborate easily on projects, resolve conflicts quickly and build a strong sense of camaraderie. On the other hand, poor communication can lead to inefficiencies, misunderstandings, missed opportunities, and toxicity.

In our relationship with people in our community, and social networks, communication plays a vital role in building trust, deepening bonds, and creating stronger connections. Open and honest communication is the backbone of any healthy relationship, whether it is between neighbours, acquaintances, spouses, friends, or even family members. When people are able to communicate their feelings, thoughts, and opinions in a clear and respectful manner, it enables them to resolve conflicts, work through disagreements, and build stronger relationships.

Great leaders are known for their skillful oratory abilities to unite the people and motivate them towards a common goal. Good communication enables them to convey their vision convincingly to the masses, establish a rapport with their constituents and connect with them emotionally. Without effective communication, leaders struggle to build trust and support among their followers, creating misunderstandings and confusion. We must devote our time to learning and mastering the art of effective communication to enhance our chances of success.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

No lotteries in life.

LIFE IS NOT A GAME OF CHANCE

While some may believe that luck determines our fate, the truth is that our success and happiness are largely determined by our own actions. In other words, there are no lottery in life, we create our own luck through hard work, perseverance and determination. If we will become successful in life, we need to focus on our goals and take proactive steps to achieve them. We cannot simply rely on chance or hope that things will fall into place on their own. By taking charge of our lives, we can determine what we become.

It is important to remember that success is not a singular achievement. It is a series of actions, habits and choices that we develop over time, and the culmination of attendant rewards. We need to have a clear vision of what we want to achieve, and then work diligently towards those goals. Along our journey, we may encounter setbacks and failures, but these challenges should not discourage us, they should motivate us to work even harder. We need to learn from our mistakes, and continue pushing ourselves towards our goals.

There are also opportunities that come our way that we must recognize and take advantage of. However, these opportunities often come as a result of our own actions and hard work. The harder we work, the more opportunities we will create for ourselves, and the greater our chances of reaching our desired destination. We can not fold our hands and expect to be greeted with opportunities, opportunities come to those who walk in their shores.

It is our own choices, habits, character, and actions that determines our success in life, not luck, chance, wish, or expectation. We all have the ability to achieve our  dreams and make a difference in the world, but it requires a lot of effort, dedication and an unwavering attitude. When we take responsibility for our own lives and act in ways that guarantee the kind of results we want, we can create the kind of life we desire and achieve the success we deserve.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

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Never stay down.

KNOCKDOWNS ARE NOT KNOCKOUTS

Setbacks and failure are part of the natural experiences one would have to face in life. Whether it is in our personal lives, relationships, or careers, we will all face challenges that will test our resilience, determination, and resolve. Sometimes life will knock you down, and trample on you, but you have to pick up yourself, dust off the stains and get going.

A knockdown from life can come in many forms. It could be a rejection, a failed project, or a loss of some kind. Whatever form it takes, it can be disheartening and leave us feeling defeated, incompetent, and unwanted. However, it is important to remember that a knockdown is not a knockout. A knockdown is merely a temporary setback, and it does not have to define us. It is in those moments of adversity and chaos that we must rise up and show our strength and determination. We can use the experience of the knockdown to learn, grow, and become better versions of ourselves.

Rising up and overcoming a knockdown requires resilience. Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity and come back even stronger. It involves a mindset of determination, perseverance, and a willingness to learn from our mistakes. When facing a knockdown, it is important to take a step back and assess the situation objectively. We can ask ourselves what went wrong, what can be learnt from the experience, and what steps can be taken to move forward. By reframing the situation as an opportunity for growth, we can shift our mindset and start to see the silver lining.

In times of adversity it is important to reach out to our support systems, our coaches, mentors, family, and friends, who are interested in our growth and progress. We do not have to face the challenge alone. We can seek advice, guidance, or simply a listening ear from those we trust. This can provide us with the emotional support and encouragement we need to keep going. Regardless of how many times you get knocked down, always find a way to get back on your feet and keep going.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

The danger of comparison.

COMPARISON IS A THIEF OF JOY

In a world of content creation, virtual likes, and comments, littered with so much fake and unreal presentation of people's supposed private lives. It is easy to fall prey to comparing one's self with the creators of these contents. We constantly see curated versions of other people's lives online, and it can be tempting to compare our own lives to what we see. We may feel like we are not good enough, not successful enough, or not living up to other people’s expectations. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and even depression.

The danger of comparison lies in the fact that we often judge ourselves based on incomplete or inaccurate information. We see others' highlight reels and compare them to our own behind-the-scenes realities. We fail to recognize that other people's lives are not perfect either, and that they too experience struggles, setbacks, and challenges. Comparison often leads to a cycle of negative self-talk. We may start to focus on our flaws and weaknesses, instead of our strengths and achievements.

We may become overly critical of ourselves, leading to self-doubt and feelings of inadequacy. This can create a vicious cycle that only reinforces our negative self-perceptions. Comparing ourselves to others can cause us to lose sight of our own unique journey; and become so focused on what other people are achieving that we fail to appreciate our own progress and accomplishments. We may also lose touch with our own priorities and values, and instead start to focus on what others consider important.

In combating the tendencies for unhealthy comparison, it is important that we focus on our own journey and recognize our own unique strengths and talents. We should celebrate our achievements, no matter how small, and be kind to ourselves when we experience setbacks or failures. We should also work towards cultivating a growth mindset, where we view challenges and setbacks as opportunities for learning and growth, rather than as personal failures. Everyone has their own unique path in life, and comparing ourselves to others is trading off our joy for peanut.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Keep your thoughts at bay.

MASTER YOUR THOUGHTS

Our thoughts are incredibly powerful, they shape our perceptions of the world around us and ultimately influence our actions. It is therefore essential that we strive to master our thoughts in order to live a fulfilling and purposeful life. Our minds constantly generate a stream of thoughts, many of which are automatic and subconscious. By becoming aware, and paying attention to our thoughts, we can identify patterns, beliefs, and behaviors that might be holding us back or causing us undue stress.

Once we are aware of our thoughts, we can work on changing them. This involves challenging negative or limiting beliefs and replacing them with positive ones. If we find ourselves constantly thinking that we are not good enough or that we can not become successful, we can challenge these beliefs by examining the evidence and looking for counterexamples. We can also consciously choose to focus on the positive aspects of our lives and the opportunities that surround us.

Mastering our thoughts involves learning to manage our emotions. Our thoughts and emotions are intimately linked and dependent on each other. Negative thoughts can trigger negative emotions, while positive thoughts can lead to feelings of happiness and fulfillment. By actively managing our emotions, we can cultivate a sense of inner peace and contentment that can help to keep negative thoughts at bay.

Practicing mindfulness is a powerful way to master our thoughts and emotions. Mindfulness involves paying attention to the present moment without judgment, and can help us to become more aware of our thoughts and emotions as they arise. With practice, we can learn to observe our thoughts and emotions without getting caught up in them, which can help us to respond to challenging situations in a more measured and thoughtful way. With time and effort we can master our thoughts and learn to live a more fulfilling, purposeful, and joyful life.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Perfection is attainable.

BECOMING A FLAWLESS EXECUTIONIST

Perfection in one's craft and skill is not an easy feat to reach, but it is a great possibility that has been achieved by so many in different endeavours of life. Executing a task or project flawlessly is not just about doing something well, but doing it perfectly, and this requires a high level of dedication, attention to detail, and a commitment to excellence. Achieving flawless execution is something that everyone strives for, whether it is in the context of work, sports, or any other area of life.

To attain perfection in our craft and be able to flawlessly execute tasks, we need to be practical and set clear, achievable goals. To do this, you must have a clear understanding of what you are trying to accomplish and how you plan to achieve it. This involves breaking the task or project down into smaller, more manageable steps. It is important to be specific in your goals, so you can measure your progress along the way.

Establishing a plan of action is another very critical step towards becoming a top performer and flawless executionist. A plan of action outlines the steps you will take to achieve your goals. It includes timelines, resources, and contingencies for potential roadblocks, which are very likely to be encountered along the way. A good plan of action sets you up for success by ensuring that you are well-prepared and have the tools and resources you need to execute flawlessly.

It is not enough to set goals, and have plans, we must be ready, willing, and prepared to execute. You have to put your plan into action. Flawless execution requires focus on the details as this is crucial in ensuring that everything goes according to plan, and discipline, focus, and patience is required to achieve this. As we go on our quest to becoming flawless Executionist, we must keep track of our progress against our goals and adjust our plans as may be necessary. We must also be ready to learn from our experiences and that of others, as there are always rooms for improvement.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

You can be unstoppable.

ACTIVATE YOUR UNSTOPPABILITY

Being unstoppable is a state of mind in which there are no limits to what we can achieve. It is having a mindset that allows us to overcome any obstacle, persevere through challenges, and achieve our goals, no matter how difficult they may seem. It is not about being invincible or never making mistakes, it is about constantly pushing forward with determination and courage.

To activate our unstoppability, we need to start by developing a positive mindset. This involves focusing on the positive aspects of our lives and be grateful for what we have. Rather than dwelling on our failures or challenges, we need to focus on our strengths and what we can do to make progress towards our goals. We also need to create a plan of action. It is important to set clear, realistic goals and break them down into manageable steps. This will help us to stay focused and motivated, even when we encounter obstacles along the way. We need to be flexible and adaptable to change our plans if needed, but always keep our end goal in mind.

To achieve our goals, we also need to be willing to take risks and embrace failure, accept it is a part of the learning process, learn from our mistakes, adjust our approach, and keep moving forward. We need to remember that success is not achieved overnight, but through persistence and hard work. We also need to surround ourselves with positive and supportive people, seek out mentors, advisors, and friends who will encourage us and hold us accountable for our actions.

We should connect with others who share our goals and aspirations, and who can help us to grow and develop as individuals. It takes intentional effort and dedication to be unstoppable, but the rewards are worth it. We will be able to achieve our goals, overcome our obstacles, and live a fulfilling and meaningful life if we put our heart and mind to whatever we do. So, let us activate our unstoppability and achieve the greatness we are capable of.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Go for what you want.

WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM LIFE?

We all have different desires, dreams and goals that we strive for in life. We wake up everyday, and go in pursuit of something. Sometimes, we fall on something by providence, luck, or mistake. At times, we get into things we do not want to get into, and get something we do not want. But the real question is - What do you really want? This question may seem simple, but the answer can be complex. However, sometimes the answer to this question can be elusive, leaving us feeling lost and unsure of our life's purpose. 

Knowing what we want from life requires some form of self-reflection. We need to take some time to think about what truly makes us happy and give us a sense of fulfillment. This may require quiet introspection or seeking out activities that bring us joy. Connecting with our inner self and passions can bring about clarity of purpose and direction for us. Sometimes, when we focus on the end result we hope to arrive at, we can really understand what we want from life.

We can ask ourself where we want to see ourself in the future. What kind of lifestyle or career do we envision for ourself? What legacy do we plan or want to leave behind? By visualizing a future that excites and motivates us, we can begin to make decisions and take actions that align with that vision. It is also important to remember that what you want can change over time. As you grow and experience new things, our desires and priorities may shift. This is a natural thing and staying open to new ideas and opportunities can lead you down a path of discovery and fulfillment.

It is also vital to avoid comparing ourself to other people when trying to determining what we really want. Our goals and desires are unique to us and our personal journey. What may be right for someone else may not be right for you. It is important to stay true to yourself and not let external factors influence your decision-making. If you know what you want in life, you will get it; but if you don't anything you get will seem like a price even if it is worthless. So, know what you want, and don't stop until you get it.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Don't skip the process.

GO THROUGH THE PROCESS

We live in a world where everyone is eager for instant gratification, we are often impatient for results. We set goals and want to see immediate progress, without necessarily going through the process, learning from the process, and enjoying the journey. However, it is important to remember that success is not just about reaching the finish line, but about going through the process.

Going through the process is about embracing the journey and recognizing the value of each step along the way. It is about being patient, persistent, and willing to put in the effort needed to achieve our goals. It means being present in the moment and enjoying the small victories that lead to bigger successes. When we are too focused on the end result, we may miss out on important opportunities to learn and grow along the way. We may become discouraged when progress is slow, or when we encounter setbacks or obstacles.

However, going through the process means understanding that these challenges are a natural part of the journey, and that they can actually help us become stronger and more resilient. Going through the process also means staying committed to our goals, even when the road ahead seems long and challenging. We must stay focused on the small steps we need to take to get there, and celebrating each milestone along the way. We must be willing to make adjustments and course-correct along the way, while staying true to our ultimate vision.

Ultimately, going through the process is about developing resilience, growth, and a sense of purpose. It is about knowing that we are capable of achieving great things, and that we have the strength and determination to overcome any obstacles in our path. It is about embracing the journey and enjoying the process of personal growth. So, keep going, stay the course, and enjoy the process along the way.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Optimise your opportunities.

DON'T MISS THE TRAIN

In life, we are sometimes presented with opportunities that can take us to our desired destinations, but if we fail to act on them, we might end up regretting our inaction. This is why it is important to be vigilant, prepared, proactive and to always be ready to take action when opportunities present themselves.

There are countless individuals who have missed out on great opportunities only to regret it later. Imagine an artist who was offered a chance to perform at a major music festival but turned it down because they were afraid of stepping out of their comfort zone. Or a job seeker who ignored a golden opportunity to work for a prestigious company because they were content with their current job. In both scenarios, the individuals failed to take action due to fear, and probably lack of trust in their strength and ability, and missed out on opportunities that could have changed their lives for the better in the long run.

If we want to achieve success, we must be willing, ready, and prepared to seize opportunities when they present themselves. This involves stepping out of our comfort zones, taking calculated risks, and being willing to learn and grow. It also requires a certain level of preparedness, we must be ready to act within a brief moment of notice and not procrastinate or delay.

It is not uncommon for people to miss out on opportunities because they second-guess themselves or become too complacent. Fear of failure or stepping out of our comfort zone can hold us back from taking action when opportunities arise. This is why it is important to cultivate a mindset that is receptive to new opportunities, and to embrace the uncertainty that comes with stepping into uncharted territories.

At times, opportunities might not come in the form of a 'big break', but rather as small moments of chance that can hold immense value later on. Such moments might include meeting someone new at a networking event, attending a webinar or conference that exposes us to new ideas or trends, or even stumbling across a job opening that aligns with our career goals. Irrespective of how we perceive opportunities, we must strive to always maximise them as they are our propellers toward our desired destination.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Don't give excuses, take actions.

YOU DON'T HAVE AN EXCUSE

You don't have an excuse. This is something that we all need to hear from time to time. Too often, we allow ourselves to get bogged down by our circumstances, our limitations, and our past experiences. But the truth is, no matter what our situation may be, we always have a choice. We can choose to let our circumstances dictate our lives, or we can choose to take control of our own destiny.

The first step is to recognize that we all have limitations. There are things that we can't do, or that we struggle with. But that doesn't mean that we can not still make progress. We can work around our limitations, find ways to compensate for them, and focus on the things that we can do well.

The second step is to stop making excuses. Excuses are a way to avoid taking responsibility for our own lives. We tell ourselves that we can not do something because of our circumstances, our lack of resources, or our past experiences. But these excuses only serve to hold us back. They prevent us from taking action, from trying new things, and from growing as individuals.

Instead of making excuses, we need to focus on what we can do. We need to set goals for ourselves, develop a plan to achieve those goals, and take action. We may face setbacks and obstacles along the way, but that doesn't mean that we should give up. We need to persevere, to keep pushing forward even when the going gets tough.

Ultimately, we need to remember that we are in control of our own lives. We can not always control what happens to us, but we can control how we respond to those situations. We can choose to let our circumstances hold us back, or we can choose to rise above them. We can choose to make excuses, or we can choose to take action. The choice is ours.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Don't be a promise breaker.

KEEP YOUR PROMISES

A man who cannot keep his promises is a man who cannot be trusted. Keeping promises is an important aspect of building trust and maintaining healthy relationships, both in our personal and professional lives. When we make a promise, we are making a commitment to follow through on something we have said we will do. It is a reflection of our integrity and character, and a broken promise can have significant consequences on our relationship with people.

When we make a promise, we need to take responsibility for our words and actions. This means being realistic about what we can and cannot accomplish, and not overcommitting ourselves. It may be tempting to make promises in order to please others or to avoid conflict, but this can backfire if we are unable to follow through on those promises. Some people make promises with no intention of any kind to keep that promise. Sometimes, to elevate and massage their ego beyond what they really are, giving them a false feeling of importance.

Following through on promises requires discipline and accountability. It may involve setting reminders or establishing routines to ensure we stay on track and meet our commitments. It also involves being proactive in communicating with the parties involved if there are any obstacles or challenges that may prevent us from fulfilling our promises. Breaking a promise erodes trust and can damage relationships. It is important to be honest and upfront if we are unable to fulfill our promises, and to communicate this as soon as possible with those who are affected by it.

Apologizing and making amends can help to rebuild trust, but it may take time to regain the level of trust that was previously established. Keeping promises is not just about fulfilling our commitments, it is about maintaining our integrity and building trust with others. Keeping promises requires us to be accountable and honest to ourselves. When we make a promise, we need to take it seriously and do everything in our power to fulfill it. This will help us build a reputation that reflects our reliability, trustworthiness, and commitment to others.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Fate can be the compass.

DON'T STRUGGLE WITH FATE

Life is full of uncertainties. A lot of times we try to control our destiny and struggle against fate. We want to believe that we have control over everything that happens in our lives, but the truth is that some things are beyond our control and they are best left to unfold than to try tampering with. Sometimes, fate has a plan for us that we cannot change no matter how hard we try. When we struggle against fate, we can become stressed, anxious, and unhappy.

We might think that if we just work harder or push harder, we can change the outcome. But sometimes, struggling against fate only make things worse. It is important to remember that there are some things we simply cannot change, no matter how hard we try. Instead of struggling against fate, we should focus on what we can control. We can control how we react to the situations that are presented to us. We can choose to respond with positivity and grace, even when faced with adversity.

We can also choose to seek out the lessons that fate is trying to teach us. When we accept the situation and allow it to teach us, we can grow as individuals. Accepting fate does not mean that we give up on our dreams, goals, and aspirations. We can still work towards the things we want, but we must also understand that the outcome is not entirely within our control. We should focus on what we can control and be mindful of the lessons we are learning along the way, then we would find peace and fulfillment in our lives.

Struggling against fate can be exhausting and unproductive. We should rather embrace fate, while working towards what we really want for ourselves. Sometimes fate has a way of redirecting us in the path that we should go. It can be the compass that points us to the path that leads to our breakthrough. We must approach life with and open mind, and a heart of willingness to adapt to the leading and direction of fate, while hoping to reach our desired destination.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Deal with difficulties.

DO THE HARD THINGS

There is a common saying that "nothing worth having comes easy." This is especially true when it comes to achieving our goals and dreams. In order to make progress, we need to be willing to do the hard things - the things that require effort, persistence, and dedication. These things may not always be enjoyable or easy to do, but they can lead to some of the most rewarding experiences in life. Taking on difficult challenges requires a willingness to step outside of our comfort zones.

We may encounter obstacles, setbacks, or unexpected challenges along the way, but it is important to remain committed and push through these difficulties. By doing so, we develop resilience and build the muscle of perseverance. By doing the hard things, we are acknowledging and facing our fears. We are taking calculated risks, even when we are uncertain or afraid of the outcome. We will be holding ourselves accountable for our goals and taking responsibility for our actions.

We must learn to be patient with ourselves and understand that progress takes time. Hard work and perseverance are often the keys to success. When we are willing to put in the effort, we can achieve even the most daunting of tasks. Whether it is starting a new business, learning a new skill, or pursuing a personal passion, doing the hard things can lead to a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment that is unparalleled and unrivalled.

Doing the hard things is not always easy. It takes discipline, focus, determination, and a strong work ethic. It may require pushing our physical, mental, or emotional limits. However, those who are willing to do the hard things are often the ones who achieve the greatest success and make the biggest impact on the world. As we embrace the challenges ahead, let us remember the words of Nelson Mandela: "It always seems impossible until it is done." It may be hard and difficult, but it is possible, so, go for it.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Prioritise learning privileges.

LEARNING ON THE JOB

Learning on the job is an important aspect of professional development and growth. In today’s fast-paced and dynamic work environment, organisation are looking for individuals who have a willingness to learn, adapt and grow within their roles. The ability to learn effectively on the job is an essential skill in today's workforce. Learning on the job is gives us the privilege of having a practical and hands-on approach to learning.

Instead of relying solely on theoretical knowledge, we get to experience real-world scenarios that provide us with a better understanding of our job responsibilities. We get to apply the concepts and skills we have learned in a real work setting, which makes the learning process more engaging and relevant. On-the-job learning also allows us to acquire new skills and knowledge in a cost-effective manner. It eliminates the need for expensive training programs or courses and enables we to acquire new skills while working, leading cost saving and effective performance.

One of the most significant benefits of on-the-job learning is that it promotes continuous learning, which is essential in today's rapidly changing work environment. With technology constantly evolving, job requirements are constantly changing. The ability to learn on-the-job enables employees to stay up-to-date with the latest industry trends, technologies and best practices, allowing them to be more productive and effective in their roles.

No one started out as a ready made, complete, and fit for the job professional, every professional became the perfect man for the job, the sort after, and top notch professional after years of learning, and adapting to different changes and situations that the job offers. Never be afraid to start fresh, green, and blank, but be ready to learn, relearn, unlearn and adapt. We should not despise any opportunity to learn on the job, it might be that which leads to the ultimate goal.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Focus is key.

FOCUS ON WHAT MATTERS

As we navigate through life, we are constantly bombarded with a lot of distractions, and pressures that can make it difficult to stay focused on what really matter to us. We are bombarded with social media posts, news, advertisements, and other forms of noise that can drown out our inner voice and create confusion and distraction. However, if we want to live a purposeful and fulfilling life, we must learn to ignore what does not matter and focus on what truly make us happy and fulfilled.

We must find a way of letting go of the things that distract us or cause unnecessary worry and stress, and recognize that we have a limited amount of time and energy to devote to the things in our lives, and we must be judicious in where we invest it. When we let go of the things that do not matter, we free up space for the things that truly do.

When we ignore the things that does not matter, we are able prioritize our goals and values. We become clear about what truly matters to us, and focus our attention and energy on the things that bring us the most joy and fulfillment. We can pursue our passions, build meaningful relationships, and create a more meaningful life. At times, ignoring what does not matter may involve saying no to people or opportunities that do not align with our goals and values. This can be a difficult and uncomfortable process, but it is essential if we want to live a purposeful life. Saying no allows us to maintain our boundaries and focus our energy on the things that truly matter to us.

Aligning our focus with our dreams and aspirations makes it possible for us to be able to face every challenge with courage and confidence making winning easy. We will not find satisfaction in anything we are doing unless we are focused, determined, and ready to see it through to a successful ending. Go after the things that bring you happiness and satisfaction, let go of the things that do not serve you. Converge your energy on what truly matter, life will be more fulfilling and rewarding.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Be kind always.

KINDNESS HAVE REWARDS

Kindness is a quality that comes from the heart and touches the lives of those around us. It is one of the most powerful acts one can engage in, and it has the power to transform lives in ways that we may not even imagine. Being kind is not only good for others, but it also has many benefits for the giver as well. The rewards may not be instant or even come as soon as we would expect, but no act of kindness will ever go unrewarded.

When we are kind to others, we create a ripple effect of positive energy that can have a far-reaching impact. A small act of kindness such as complimenting someone or holding the door open for someone can make their day. You never know what hardships someone might be going through, and your act of kindness might be the light that brightens their day. When we lift someone else's spirit, it creates a positive energy that spreads, making the world a more loving and compassionate place.

Spreading kindness has a positive impact on our own well-being. Studies has shown that when we practice kindness, it has a positive impact on our mental and physical health. It boosts feelings of happiness and wellbeing, reduces stress, and can have a positive effect on our immune system. Practicing kindness can improve our relationships with others and even lead to an increase in self-esteem, thereby boosting our confidence level in executing our daily activities.

Kindness have rewards in the sense that helps us to connect easily with others, creating bonds that are likely to last for longer than even we can imagine. When we are kind to others, it creates an opportunity for human connection. These connections can be among the most valuable things in our lives. They can lead to a sense of community, belongingness and support that can uplift us and give our lives meaning and purpose. Every day is an opportunity to show kindness to someone else, and in doing so, we can create a better world for ourselves and those around us. Remember to always be kind!

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Your mindset determines your results.

MINDSET PRODUCE OUTCOMES

One of the most powerful tools we have as human beings is our mindset. Our mindset is our unique perspective on the world, and it has the power to shape our experiences and outcomes in life. Whether we approach challenges with a positive or negative mindset can make all the difference in whether or not we become successful individuals in life. Mindset produces outcomes, and the way we think about things can either propel us forward or hold us back.

Individuals with a growth mindset approach challenges as opportunities for growth and learning. They see obstacles as a chance to refine their skills and become better versions of themselves. These individuals are more likely to take risks and try new things because they understand that failure is not the end, but rather a stepping stone towards success. On the other hand, individuals with a fixed mindset believe that their capabilities and potential for success are limited.

They view challenges and obstacles as a reflection of their abilities, and the fear of failure can hold them back from reaching their full potential. These individuals are less likely to take risks and are more likely to feel discouraged and give up quickly. The mindset we adopt can ultimately shape the outcomes we experience in life. A positive and growth-oriented mindset can lead to increased confidence, resilience, and perseverance, which are critical components of success. It can also help us stay motivated, even when things get tough, and allow us to pursue our goals with passion and determination.

Conversely, a negative mindset can limit our potential and hold us back from achieving our goals. It can lead to self-doubt, fear, and a lack of confidence, which can prevent us from taking action towards our desired outcomes. A negative mindset can also negatively impact our mental and emotional wellbeing, further perpetuating a cycle of self-doubt and negativity. If we build a mindset of positivity, possibilities, and progress, we will not be limited or hindered from achieving our goals.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Take responsibility for your life.

IT IS ALL YOUR FAULT

Blaming others for our misfortunes or mistakes is often an easy way out. It relieves us of any responsibility and allows us to avoid facing the discomfort of our own shortcomings. However, as tempting as it may be, blaming others is not an effective way to deal with our problems. In fact, taking responsibility for our actions, even if they have negative consequences, is actually a sign of emotional maturity. It shows that we are willing to acknowledge our mistakes and work towards making things right.

Blaming others, on the other hand, keeps us stuck in a place of resentment and anger, preventing us from moving forward and finding resolution. It can be difficult to accept our own role in difficult situations. It can be tempting to find fault in others, whether it is a friend, family member, coworker or significant other. Yet, taking ownership of our mistakes is the responsible and mature thing to do, and is often the key to finding resolution to challenging situations.

Instead of blame, we should focus on understanding the root cause of the situation, and finding ways to address it. This involves being honest with ourselves, acknowledging our role, apologizing if necessary, and working towards making amends or finding a solution. It is important to remember that we do not have control over everything in our lives. Sometimes, things simply happen, beyond our control. It is important to find a balance between accepting responsibility for our actions and recognizing what is beyond our control.

We must also remember that mistakes are a normal part of life, we are all bound to make some at different points in our lives. The most successful individuals in the world have made many mistakes, but they have found a way to turn those mistakes into valuable lessons that propel them towards their goals. We are all human, and we all make mistakes. Accepting responsibility for our actions, learning from our mistakes, and moving forward is how we grow and become better versions of ourselves.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Never forget your why.

REMEMBER YOUR REASON

In life, there are times when we face challenges, obstacles, and setbacks. In those moments, it is easy to lose sight of our goals and the reasons we started on our journey in the first place. We may feel overwhelmed, frustrated, or disheartened, and we may begin to question whether our efforts are worth it. In those moments, it is essential to remember your reasons for starting. What inspired you? What were your goals? What motivated you to take action?

The reasons we start or embark on a particular path or goal are our fuel to keep going. They are our guiding light, and they help us persevere and overcome obstacles along the way. When we lose sight of those reasons, we lose our sense of purpose and direction. We become lost, and we may even feel like giving up. When you find yourself in those tricky moments, take a deep breath, and remember why you started.

Go back to the source of your inspiration, whether it is a person, a place, or an event. Remind yourself of the goals you set for yourself and the reasons why those goals were so important to you. If you are struggling to remember those reasons, take some time to reflect on your journey. Consider all the challenges you have overcome and the progress you have made. Remember the sense of accomplishment you felt when you achieved a particular milestone or accomplished something significant.

The point is to reconnect with your why. Your reasons and motivations can help you stay focused, motivated, and inspired, even in the most challenging moments. Remembering your reasons will help you find the strength and determination to keep going, to push through the hardships, and to reach your goals. If your reason for starting is strong enough, you are sure to keep moving until your goal is reached, never forget your why.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Your dream needs you.

SAY YES TO YOUR DREAMS

Our dreams can often feel out of reach, like far-off aspirations that are impossible to achieve. We may sometimes want to talk ourselves out of pursuing them, telling ourselves that they are unrealistic or that we lack the skills and resources necessary to make them a reality. However, if we want to live a fulfilling and rewarding life, we must learn to say yes to our dreams, and be willing and ready to pursue them with everything we have got.

When we say yes to our dreams we are committing to the ideas, goals, aspirations, and visions we hold most dear, even if they seem challenging or unattainable. We must commit to taking the first step towards pursuing those goals even if we are uncertain of the outcome. We must also believe in ourselves and our abilities to overcome every obstacle that comes our way and navigate the challenges along the way.

Setting clear and specific goals is a very important step we must take in saying yes to our dreams. This might involve breaking a larger dream into smaller, more manageable milestones that we can work towards over time. It could also involve seeking out the support and guidance of others who have achieved similar dreams or learning new skills that will help us move forward towards achieving what we have set out to achieve.

Saying yes to our dreams also means being willing to take risks and embrace uncertainty. We may face setbacks and failures, but it is important to remember that these are part of the journey. They provide opportunity for growth, learning, and resilience. We must become courageous, determined, and persevering to have any chance of realising our dreams, taking ownership of our lives and pursuing the things that matter most to us, even in the face of uncertainty and doubt. By saying yes to our dreams, we open ourselves up to a world of great possibilities and potential, and we create the pathway towards the life we truly want to live.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

The power of faith.

FAITH WILL SEE YOU THROUGH

Faith is a powerful force that has the ability to move mountains and overcome seemingly impossible obstacles. It is a deep-rooted belief in something greater than ourselves, and it has the power to sustain us through even the toughest of times. While life can be challenging, faith reminds us that there is always hope and that we are never alone. One of the most inspiring aspects of faith is that it never fails. In times of uncertainty and doubt, having faith can be the one constant that keeps us grounded and gives us the strength to persevere.

Faith allows us to trust in a higher power and to believe that everything happens for a reason, even if we cannot see it at the time. When we face challenges in life, it can be easy to lose faith and give up hope. However, it is precisely in these moments that we need faith the most. It is the light that shines bright in the darkness and the anchor that keeps us steady in the storm. It gives us the courage to keep going, even when the road ahead seems long and difficult.

While it may be tempting to rely solely on our own abilities and understanding, faith reminds us that there is something greater at work in the world. It is a reminder that we are not in control and that it is okay to let go of our worries and trust that everything will work out in the end. Faith never fails because it is not dependent on external circumstances. It is a belief that transcends our current situation and allows us to see beyond the challenges we may face.

Faith gives us the strength to endure, the hope to dream, and the courage to take action towards our desired outcomes. It reminds us  that we are not alone, and that there is a greater purpose and plan at work in our lives than that which we only see. Having faith gives us the strength, and courage to persevere through even the most difficult of times and to emerge stronger and more resilient than ever before.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Change is a constant.

NOTHING IS PERMANENT

Everything in the world is constantly in a state of change, be it the natural world where seasonal changes transform the landscape or the human world where societal norms and values evolve over time, as well as human effect on the features of the earth. This realization can be both empowering and unsettling, but it is a fundamental truth that we must learn to embrace in order to navigate the ups and downs of life with relative ease.

When faced with difficulties or challenges, it can be easy to fall into despair or a sense of hopelessness, feeling as though the situation will never change. However, the truth is that change is inevitable. Whatever we may be going through at the moment is a temporary state that will eventually pass. When life is going well, we should also remember that it will not last forever. Even the happiest moments will give way to new experiences and challenges. This is not meant to be a depressing realization but rather a reminder that we must cherish the good moments while we have them and be prepared to adapt and grow during the more challenging times.

When we understand the impermanence of life we will become flexible and adaptable. We will be willing to let go of the past and embrace change in order to create a better future. It means embracing the present moment and making the most of the opportunities that we have right now. Knowing that nothing is permanent in life can be a valuable perspective to keep in mind when it comes to our relationship with others. It can help us to avoid becoming too attached to people or situations, realizing that even the strongest relationships may change or evolve over time.

This does not mean that we should not invest in our relationships or treat them as disposable, rather, that we should approach them with a sense of mindfulness and acceptance that things may not always stay the same. It is also worth noting that the impermanence of life is not to be feared or avoided, rather, it is a natural and beautiful part of the cycle of life. It allows us grow, evolve, and adapt to new circumstances; and also to experience the full range of human emotions and to appreciate the fleeting but magical moments that make life worth living.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Are you a builder or destroyer?

BUILDERS AND CATERPILLARS

In our world, there are two types of people: builders and destroyers. Builders focus on creating, growing, and shaping the world around them. They bring forth new ideas, technologies, and innovations that move society forward. They are driven by a desire to make things better and improve the lives of others.

On the other hand, destroyers focus on tearing down and breaking apart what already exists. They are motivated by negative emotions, such as anger, jealousy, and hatred, which lead them to attack and destroy what others have built. Their actions cause harm, suffering, and despair to those around them, and they do nothing to move society forward.

Builders come in different forms: scientists, inventors, artists, teachers, and entrepreneurs, among others. They see the world as a place of infinite possibilities and are always seeking opportunities to create, innovate, and spread knowledge. They are the ones who bring new ideas, products, and services to market, driving economic growth and progress. Builders are also the ones who create a sense of community and belonging. They build relationships, institutions, and organizations that bring people together and strengthen society. They create the infrastructure that allows communities to thrive, such as schools, hospitals, and public services.

Destroyers, on the other hand, seek to undermine and upset the structure of society. They are driven by a desire to tear down what others have built, either out of malice, spite, or a sense of entitlement. They cause chaos and destruction wherever they go, leaving behind a trail of harm and hurt. While destroyers may achieve temporary success by tearing things down, their actions ultimately lead to a sense of emptiness and despair. Rather than building something worthwhile that will last for generations, they leave destruction and chaos in their wake. As individuals, we have the power to choose which path we take. Will we be builders who drive progress, or destroyers who cause suffering and chaos? The choice is ours.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Stillness ahead.

CALMNESS AFTER THE STORM

After a storm passes, there is often a sense of calmness that can be felt in the air. The turbulent winds that were once whipping through the trees, and the rain that was once pouring down, have been replaced by stillness and a sense of peace. This calmness after the storm can be incredibly powerful and offer us a sense of renewal and hope. In life, we all experience storms of various kinds. Sometimes these storms come in the form of physical catastrophes, such as natural disasters, illness, or accidents.

At other times, they take the form of personal struggles, such as emotional pain and hardships. Whatever the form of the storm, it can be extremely difficult and overwhelming to endure. However, just as the storm eventually dissipates and passes, so too can our personal storms. And when they do, there is often a sense of relief and calmness that comes over us. The chaos and confusion that once surrounded us slowly fades away, and we are left with a sense of peace, clarity, and renewed strength.

This calmness after the storm can be incredibly powerful, and it can serve as a reminder of our strength, resilience, and ability to overcome adversity. It allows us to reflect on the challenges we faced and grow stronger as a result. It can also offer us a newfound appreciation for the simple things in life, such as the beauty of a sunset, the sound of a bird singing, or the feel of a gentle breeze on our face.

Moreover, the calmness after the storm can also prepare us for the next challenge that may come our way. It reminds us that, even when things seem to be at their worst, there is always hope for a better tomorrow. It helps us cultivate the strength and resilience we need to navigate life's ups and downs with grace and resilience. So, let us all embrace the calmness after the storm and look forward to a brighter future, no matter what challenges we may face along the way.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

You reap what you sow.

DON'T LIKE THE PLANT? CHANGE THE SEED.

A man's current situation and circumstances are a reflection of the seeds that he has planted in the past. You will never reap a fruit that is different from that produced by the seed you plant. Life pays you in the same coin that you spend, and it comes in even larger measures. If you do not like the fruit you have today, change the seed you are planting today. If we want to see different outcomes from what we are currently seeing in the future, we must plant different seeds in the present. 

Sometimes, we may find ourselves stuck in a pattern of behavior that we wish to change, but may feel helpless to do so. However, by recognizing that our current situation is a result of the seeds that we have planted in the past, our past actions, we can begin to take responsibility for our choices and actions and make the necessary changes to see different outcomes in the future.

We must begin to take intentional action to plant new thoughts, attitudes, and behaviors that align with our desired outcomes, and be willing to let go of old patterns of thinking and acting that no longer serve us and embracing new perspectives and behaviors that move us towards our goals. We cannot continue to act negatively, and expect to get positive results; we can not be lazy and nonchalant about our dreams, goals, and aspirations, and expect productive outcomes, we must alter the patterns.

In situations where we may be dissatisfied with the behavior of others, rather than trying to change the other person, we can focus on changing our own behavior and reactions to the situation. By changing the seed of our thoughts and actions, we can create a shift in the dynamics of our relationship with them, and potentially see changes in the other person's behavior as well. Plant the seed you want to reap.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Be true to yourself.

THE DANGER OF SELF-DECEPTION

Self-deception is a dangerous trap that can have devastating consequences. We can delude ourselves into thinking that what we want is what is best for us. We twist and distort facts until they fit our narrative, ignoring evidence that contradicts our beliefs. This mental distortion can lead us to make poor decisions that harm us and those around us. Self-deception often arises because we don't want to confront uncomfortable truths. 

We hold on to beliefs that make us feel good, regardless of how baseless or irrational they are. We don't want to confront our fears, flaws, or imperfections, so we deceive ourselves into thinking that we are better than we truly are. This can have disastrous consequences in different aspects of our lives. In relationships, self-deception can lead to a lack of introspection and failure to see our own contribution to problems within the relationship. This can result in a lack of accountability and the inability to resolve conflicts and improve communication.

Self-deception can lead to complacency and resistance to change. We cling to our comfort zones and refuse to take risks or try new things, limiting our opportunities for growth and development. It can also lead to denial of our own faults or areas for improvement. This can prevent us from taking the necessary steps to achieve our goals and can even set us back in our personal growth journey.

It will become difficult for a self-deceiving person to recognize and address the issues he is facing. We can become so invested in our own delusions that we become blind to the reality. It takes self-awareness and a willingness to confront uncomfortable truths to break the cycle of self-deception. It is important to question our beliefs and assumptions and seek out alternative perspectives. We must learn to listen to feedback, even when it is not easy to hear, and be open to constructive criticism, only then can we begin to live an authentic and fulfilling life.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Be fearless, be limitless.

LIMITLESSNESS OF THE FEARLESS

Fear is a natural human emotion that can paralyze many and prevent them from living their best lives. The fear of failure, rejection, or the unknown can hold one back and limit the fulfilment of potentials. However, when we learn to overcome our fears, we tap into a sense of limitlessness that can propel us to great heights. Being fearless doesn't mean that we never feel afraid, but rather that we confront our fears and push through them.

When we face our fears head-on, we discover that they are often not as scary as we thought they were. We learn that we are capable of more than we thought, and that there are no limits to what we can achieve. When we embrace fearlessness, we expand our horizons and find new opportunities. We break out of our comfort zones and reach for the stars, knowing that failure is just a temporary setback on the road to success. We learn to trust ourselves and our abilities, and we become more confident and resilient in the face of challenges.

The limitless nature of a fearless man will take him beyond his natural abilities and into a realm of possibilities. A fearless man will freely explore new horizons, and discover new things. They are not bound by fears or limited by doubts. Instead, they are empowered to take risks and try new things. They are open to new possibilities and are willing to step outside of their comfort zones to achieve their goals.

It is important to note that fearlessness doesn't mean that we should be reckless or ignore our instincts. There are times when it is wise to be cautious and evaluate risks carefully, but when we are ruled by fear, we miss out on countless opportunities to grow and learn. The fearful man will never get anything done, while the fearless man is achieving everything he has set out to achieve and even more. As James Russell Lowell said, "Fate loves the fearless." and who fate loves, it smiles on, so go ahead fearlessly.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Hardwork always produce results.

SWEAT FOR SWEETNESS

Hard work and intentional efforts are the only ingredients that can lead to great rewards and accomplishments. There is nothing worth having that comes easy, everything that is worth it, will always come through hard work. In other words, to achieve something, you need to put in a great deal of effort, dedication, and perseverance. In any pursuit one embarks on in life, it often takes a lot of hard work, discipline, and sacrifice to achieve one's goals, it is always difficult, but it is very possible.

The process of striving for success can be challenging and, at times, even exhausting. It may require long hours of work, sleepless nights, and sacrifices in terms of time and energy. At times it can be tempting to give up or settle for less than one's best effort. However, those who are willing to put in the effort and persevere through the challenges often find tremendous rewards waiting on the other side. They find that the sweat they put into their work pays off in the form of a job they love, a successful business venture, or fulfilling a personal dream.

Sweating and working hard towards a particular dream not only lead to success, but it also build one's character and resilience. The effort one put in to achieve a goal helps individuals grow stronger, become more confident, and more capable of taking on new challenges as they overcome one. Hard work will always produce great results no matter how long it takes.

Sweating for sweetness is a powerful concept that highlights the importance of hard work, dedication, and perseverance. It encourages us to push past our limits and to achieve our goals through the willingness to put in the necessary effort. So, let us all embrace the philosophy of sweating to receive sweetness and go after what we truly want with all the energy and determination we have within us.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Your actions will spell shame or honour.

HONOUR AND SHAME

A person's action is the major determinants of how they are being treated and perceived, honourable or shameful. Honour and shame are two fundamental concepts that have been prominent in many cultures throughout history. In sane societies, honour is held in high regard, while shame serves as a social control mechanism to enforce morality and uphold social norms. Understanding these concepts can provide insight into the central values of a society that still respect and value honesty, integrity, and uprightness and how individuals are socialized to behave.

Honour is the quality or character of a person that motivates them to act in a way that is deemed admirable or respected by others. In many societies, honour is closely linked to one's reputation, and one's behavior and actions are believed to reflect on the collective reputation of their family or community. Thus, individuals will often act in ways that reflect well on their family or community, even if their actions may not align with their personal desires or motivations.

In contrast, shame arises when an individual fails to adhere to the social norms and expectations of their community. Shame serves as a powerful tool for social control, and individuals who shame others can often exert significant influence over their behaviour. Shame can be internalized and lead to feelings of guilt and inadequacy, which can, in turn, motivate an individual to avoid actions that would bring further shame.

The concept of honour and shame has been used to explain many social phenomena, including criminal behavior, interpersonal relationships, and even international relations. For example, in many cultures, an insult to one's honour can lead to significant violence, as individuals may feel that their reputation and the reputation of their family or community is at stake. Similarly, shame can be used as a powerful tool to enforce social norms and ensure that individuals conform to expected communal behaviors.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Don't allow situations rule you.

COMPOSURE IS KEY

Being overwhelmed in the midst of chaos is a natural phenomenon, and it is often easier said to be calm than to actually be calm when there is tumult. Anxiety, and fear in stressful situations is natural, however, maintaining composure is essential to conquering our fears and sailing through those difficult moments. When we are in a high-pressure situation, we will instinctively react with fight or flight, but often times, those irrational reactions are impulsive and ineffective. They can make a bad situation worse. Remaining composed allows us to think rationally and make better decisions. 

Composing ourselves during chaos allows us to exude confidence, respond rationally, thereby earning us the respect of others. People instinctively gravitate towards calm individuals who can remain cool, calm, and collected when the stakes are high. The quality of being composed in the face of difficulties is highly important for leaders in different walks of life especially in families, and in various professional settings, where quick decision-making and level-headedness are highly valued. 

We should not also limit composure to just extreme situations. In our everyday life, remaining calm, collected and composed can help us build better relationships, improve communication skills and avoid misunderstandings. Being composed in a conversation means that you are fully engaged and present, processing what others are saying rather than reacting without thought. 

We may naturally not have the ability to be composed in the face of harsh realities, but we must learn this very important skill, because it will be of tremendous value to us, and help us sail through lots of challenges with levelheadedness. Take deeps breaths, know your limits, and acknowledge your limitations, and never be afraid to seek for help. When we learn to remain calm, we are able to navigate even the most challenging situations with grace and poise.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.