STOP THE BLAME GAME
Blaming is easy, it is a quick and fast escape from accountability, a way to dodge the discomfort of owning your own mistakes, and facing tough realities. The truth is that, every time you blame another person, you hand over your power to change. You become a passenger in your own life, waiting for someone else to fix what is broken. Unfortunately, nobody will fix anything for you, and even if they could, would you really want your happiness to depend on someone else's actions?
Ownership is the antidote to handing over your life's happiness to another person. Take responsibility for where you are, even if it stings. What has gone wrong, where did it go wrong, and what was your role in it. Owning your mistakes is not about beating yourself up, it is about recognizing that you have the power to learn, adapt, and grow. Every mistake is a lesson, every setback a setup for a comeback.
Stop the blame game, shift your mindset. It does not mean you should ignore the mistakes of others, but don't hold them on it for too long, let them off the hook, and focus on what you can control. You can't change the past or other people, but you can choose your response to events and other people's actions. The choice you make is your superpower.
Stop wasting time and energy on resentment or excuses, and see the amount of energy you will reclaim. Picture the clarity that comes when you focus on solutions instead of problems. When you let go of blame, you free yourself to create, to innovate, to move forward. You become the driver of your story, and not a bystander. Own your decisions, learn from your failures, and celebrate your growth. Life is too short to stay stuck in a game that no one wins. Step up, take charge, and watch how far you can go when you stop pointing fingers and start pointing the way forward.
To a better you, Kamikun John.
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