Stick to them

SET YOUR STANDARDS

Setting standards is like erecting a guardrail that guides your movements and alignments even when you walk with your eyes closed, it also sets a boundary between what is allowed into your space and what is not. The standards you set for yourself is what ensures you don't go below your minimum best, it ensures your value is sustained, and that you do not settle for less than you deserve.

As humans, it is important we set standards for ourselves, because without standards, everything, and anything goes. Standards are not just preferences, they are more, they are non-negotiables that must be stuck to, irrespective of what happens. When you set high standards, you attract better opportunities, people and circumstances rise or fall to meet the level you demand.

Setting and maintaining your standard helps you build respect, and a positive self esteem. Every time you uphold your standards, you reinforce your worth. When you stick to what you want, and refuse to tolerate anything less, you push yourself into putting substantial effort into whatever you do, thereby driving you toward excellence.

If you don't value yourself, others won't either. Define what you deserve in every area of life. Say no to disrespect, laziness, and inconsistency, from others or yourself. When you tolerate poor treatment, or weak habits, you invite dissatisfaction. The world does not give you what you want, it gives you what you accept. Your life is a reflection of the standards you refuse to compromise on. Set them high, defend them fiercely, and watch everything, and everyone around you rise to meet them. Standards mean nothing without discipline. Be accountable, act in ways that reflect the quality of life you desire.

To a better you, Kamikun John.