Friday, 7 February 2025

Value true friendship

A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED

True friends reveal themselves not in moments of joy and prosperity, but in times of hardship and adversity. A fair-weather friend may be present during celebrations and successes, but it is the one who stands by you during your darkest hours who proves their loyalty and worth. Life is a journey filled with peaks and valleys, and it is during the valleys, the moments of struggle, loss, or despair, that we truly discern who our real friends are.

A true friend does not shy away from your pain or inconvenience; instead, they offer a shoulder to lean on, a listening ear, and a helping hand. They are the ones who show up unasked, who stay when others leave, and who give without expecting anything in return. A friend who helps you move, who comforts you in tough times, who defends you when others criticize you, these are the friends who embody the spirit of true friendship. They are the ones who invest their time, energy, and emotions into the relationship, not out of obligation, but out of genuine care and love.

It is however important to recognize that friendship is a two-way street. Just as we cherish those who stand by us in difficult times, we must also strive to be that kind of friend to others. True friendship is built on mutual trust, empathy, and selflessness. It requires us to be present, to listen, and to act without hesitation when our friends need us. We cannot expect to receive the care and attention of a true friend, and not be ready and willing to give such in return.

In a world that often prioritizes superficial connections and fleeting interactions, the value of a true friend cannot be overstated. They are the ones who remind us that we are not alone, who give us strength when we feel weak, and who help us find light in the darkest of times. Such friends are treasures to be cherished for a lifetime. Be that friend that is always there for a friend, as you would want your friend to be there for you, be that friend in need.


To a better you, Kamikun John.

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