Let the flames refine you.

DON'T BE BOTHERED BY FLAMES.

A Life without difficulties is a life that is going nowhere in life. The journey of life is full of obstacles and challenges. From time to time, we encounter situations that may cause us stress, anxiety, or discomfort. These situations may appear to be too much for us to handle, and we may feel overwhelmed or burnt out by them. However, it is important to remember that just like a phoenix rising from the ashes, we too can rise above the flames. Rather than being bothered by the flames, we can use them as a catalyst for growth and personal transformation.

Fire has the power to transform and purify. Gold passes through fire and is not dissolved, rather, it comes out on the other side cleaner, purer, and better. When we are faced with difficulties and challenges, we can choose to let them consume us, or we use them as an opportunity to become stronger and more resilient. We can use these experiences to learn and grow, gaining new insights and perspectives along the way. 

We should not be afraid of the flames. Instead, we should embrace them, and use them to become the best version of yourself. Every time we overcome a challenge, we become a step closer to our goals and aspirations. We become more confident and capable of handling the curveballs life throws at us, and we emerge from the flames stronger and wiser than before. Franklin D. Roosevelt once said, “a smooth sea never made a skilled sailor,” if we would become good enough to face future challenges, we must face and overcome present difficulties.

Whenever you find yourself in the midst of tough situations (flames), remember that they are not a threat but an opportunity. Take a deep breath, gather your courage, and use the situation as a chance to grow and transform. Don't be bothered by the flames; use them as fuel for your personal growth and journey towards a better, satisfying, and more fulfilled life.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.