CHARACTER CANNOT BE HIDDEN.
It is not uncommon to find someone behaving in a manner that does not reflect who they truly are. Sometimes, people do this to hide something in their character that is an obvious flaw; unfortunately, it is never hidden for long. One's character is like smoke in a jar, no matter how long you try to hide it, it will always find a way out. A person's true nature and values will inevitably be revealed through their words, actions, and behavior.
In personal relationships, in the workplace, in politics, and in the society at large. Those who possess strong character, such as honesty, integrity, and empathy, tend to consistently demonstrate these qualities in their behavior, earning the respect and trust of others. Conversely, those with negative character traits, such as selfishness, deceitfulness, or aggression, will attempt to conceal these traits, and portray themselves in a certain way, but their true character will eventually come through, they will exhibit these traits over time, making others to view them unfavorably.
In whatever we do, we must be genuine and true to ourselves, recognizing that our actions and behavior will reflect our true nature. We must remember that building a strong character takes time, effort and self-reflection, and that the virtues we embody can shape our reputation and impact those around us.
When dealing with someone whose true character we are not sure of, we don't have to be hasty in deciding where or how to place them; or dig too deep to discover their true character, we just have to exercise a little patience, and soon they will display openly their true self. Good character exposes one to potential growth opportunities capable of taking one to enviable heights, but bad character degrades, and destroys one's reputation. You must choose and build your character wisely, otherwise, you will be the author of your own unfortunate, and unfavourable situation.
Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.
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