Apologies are menders.

NEVER DELAY APOLOGIES

Sometimes, when we have done wrong or acted in a way towards another person and we are not sure of how the person perceives or interpret our actions, we may find it difficult to apologize. However, irrespective of our own perception of our actions, if we perceive that what we have done does not sit well with the recipient of the effect of those actions, we must not delay in tendering an apology. Not apologising in time or at all could be one of the worst things we can do not just to the person we have wronged, but also to ourselves.

When we delay an apology, we allow the wounds and hurts caused by our actions to fester and grow. This can cause the relationship between us and the person we have wronged to deteriorate, resulting in resentments, grudges, and even broken ties. Delaying an apology only prolongs the negative emotions we feel, such as guilt, shame, and regret. It can cause us to carry these emotions with us for longer than necessary, leading to a negative impact on our physical and emotional well-being.

When we offer an apology promptly, we show the other person that we understand the impact of our actions on them, that we take responsibility for our behavior, and that we are willing to take steps to repair the damage caused. It allows us to take accountability for our actions and demonstrate respect towards the other person's feelings. Offering an apology promptly also allows both parties to move forward from the situation. It opens up communication, creates a sense of understanding and reconciliation, and can even strengthen the relationship between us and the person we have wronged.

It is important to remember that apologizing does not make us weak, but rather shows strength and courage. It takes a lot of emotional awareness and maturity to admit when we are wrong and take responsibility for our actions. Never be too proud to apologise, never hesitate in offering apologies, we are better off after an apology than before it or even denying the necessity.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.