Collaborate not rely.

RELY ON NO ONE.

You can trust people to certain extents on certain things, but you should not rely on people to do for you, or give you what you think you want, deserve, or desire. Going far in life may require working with some people: allies, mentors, colleagues, professionals, who can help us go through the journey of life with some guidance, but reliance on them would not be a very good thing to do. You have to trust yourself, your skills, abilities, talents, and know that it will take you to where you want to be.

You cannot rely on yourself if you are not ready to take ownership of your actions and decisions. If you cannot take responsibility for whatever your actions and decisions produce. Accountability to yourself, others, and those who look up to you are key factors and ingredients that will empower your personal growth and development. Investing in learning new skills and knowledge makes you more self-sufficient and adaptable in various situations, and circumstances.

Cultivating an attitude of resilience helps you navigate life's challenges without depending on others. Embracing setbacks as opportunities for growth and learning will give you peace rather than making you agitated when faced with difficult situations. Financial discipline is also a critical quality needed to be able to work towards financial stability. By budgeting, saving, and investing wisely, you can reduce your reliance on others for financial support.

One must also find a way to develop emotional intelligence and coping strategies that can see one through tough circumstances. Being self-aware helps you manage your emotions and reactions, making you less dependent on external validation. While collaboration and support from others can be valuable, it may be detrimental to rely solely on others for success. Relying on oneself fosters independence and resilience. Embracing self-reliance encourages growth, confidence, and the ability to navigate life's challenges effectively.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.