Love knows the way.

LET LOVE LEAD

If we want to live in a society where peace, and harmony prevail, where unity and oneness is the currency with which we trade, we must learn to make decisions and take actions based on the principles of love. When we let love lead, we choose to act with kindness, compassion, and empathy towards ourselves and others, we give everyone the opportunity to be fully alive, and fully expressive. Love is an essential force that connects us to others and instills a sense of purpose and meaning in our lives.

Choosing to let love lead can have a profound impact on our relationships with others. It can help us to build stronger connections and foster deeper understanding and acceptance of those around us. When we approach interactions and conflicts with love, we are more likely to listen actively, communicate effectively, and find solutions that benefit everyone involved. Without love nothing works as it should, and communication always sound like a call to battle. Love is the solution to the puzzles of life.

We cannot give what we do not have, a person that does not love himself cannot love others. We must first be beneficiaries of our own love before we can give it out to others. Asides the benefits that love brings to our relationships with others, love can also benefit our own personal growth and development. When we choose to act with love, we cultivate a positive mindset and outlook on life. This can help us to overcome adversity, build resilience, and find meaning and fulfillment in our lives.

Ultimately, letting love lead is a choice that we make every day. It requires us to let go of negative emotions, challenge our assumptions, and approach life with an open mind and heart. Any society without love is like a soup without salt. When we embrace love as our guiding principle and let it lead, we can create a brighter and more peaceful world for ourselves and those around us.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Come out of the shadows.

TAKE OFF YOUR MASK.

How often do we hide behind a mask, pretending to be someone we are not? Maybe it is because we don't want to be judged, or because we are afraid to reveal our true selves to the world. The truth is, wearing a mask can hold us back from reaching our full potential and living a happy, authentic life. We cannot operate from the dark and expect to be trusted, recognised, or respected for what we do. No one will honour a person who is not bold enough to make himself and his acts and actions known to the world.

It is time to take off the mask and embrace who we are. We are all unique, imperfect, and flawed in our own ways, and that is what makes who we are, and beautiful as we are. When we stop trying to live up to other people's expectations and start living for ourselves, we open ourselves up to a world of limitless possibilities where we can openly be our best selves and do what we know how to do best without fear or shame.

Taking off the mask means being vulnerable, and that can be scary. But vulnerability is also where growth and connection happen. When we embrace our true selves, we give others permission to do the same. We create deeper, more meaningful relationships built on a foundation of honesty and trust. We also open ourselves up to more opportunities. When we stop trying to fit into someone else's box, we can create our own. We can pursue our passions and interests with more vigor because we are no longer held back by fear or insecurity.

Taking off your mask is not something that happens overnight. It is a journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance that takes time and effort. But the first step is deciding to be honest with ourselves and with the world. You must endeavour to take off your mask, embrace your true self, your flaws and everything else that makes you truly you. You are worthy of love and acceptance just as you are. When you are brave enough to be you, you will find that the world will stand up and give you your medals.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days  of wisdom.

The pain of growing.

GROWTH IS PAINFUL BUT REWARDING.

Growing does not occur by default, it takes conscious and determined effort to move from one level of knowledge, awareness, and skill to a better, and higher level. While growth can lead to positive and transformative change, it is never comfortable or easy. In fact, growing is a process that often requires us to push ourselves out of our comfort zones and confront our challenges head-on. That process can be painful and difficult to navigate.

It is through confronting these challenges and pushing through discomfort that we are able to develop new skills, expand our perspectives, and become stronger and more resilient individuals. This process can be emotionally and physically taxing, as we are forced to confront our fears, overcome obstacles, and make difficult decisions, we basically have to go through some inconveniencies to build ourselves up for future privileges, and opportunities.

Beside the emotional weight of growth, it can also come with tangible physical experiences of pain or discomfort. Just as the caterpillar experience severe pain before it metamorphose into a butterfly, a person may experience severe physical pain, injuries, or more in the quest for physical and physiological growth. Individuals undergoing physical therapy or rehabilitation may encounter physical discomfort as they work to regain their strength and mobility.

However, despite the challenges that come with growth, many people find that the end result is well worth the pain and struggle they experience along the way. The sense of accomplishment and personal satisfaction that comes with achieving a difficult goal or overcoming a significant obstacle can be incredibly rewarding and empowering. The process of growth involves both challenges and rewards. While it can be painful and difficult at times, the eventual outcome is often one of personal growth, resilience, and fulfillment.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days  of wisdom.

You reap tomorrow, what you sow today.

SOW THE RIGHT SEEDS.

As the saying goes, "you reap what you sow." This is especially true when it comes to the choices we make and the actions we take in our lives. Everything we do has a ripple effect on the world around us, and the seeds we plant today will determine the fruit we harvest tomorrow. To sow the right seeds, we need to start with intention and purpose. We should think about what we want to achieve and the impact we want to have, and then take deliberate action towards those goals. This means setting clear objectives and breaking them down into actionable steps, so we can see progress along the way.

We also need to be mindful of the quality of the seeds we plant. This is true both literally and metaphorically. Just as a farmer carefully selects the best seeds for their crops, we need to be intentional about the ideas, beliefs, and values we cultivate in our lives. We should surround ourselves with positive influences and avoid negativity that can weigh us down.

Once we have planted our seeds, it is important to nurture them with care and attention. This means being patient and consistent in our actions, and taking steps to protect our growth from external factors that could impede our progress. It is also important to be flexible and adaptable to our approach as needed, based on feedback and results. Sowing the right seeds can look different for everyone, as it involves identifying what we want to achieve and the steps we need to take to get there. If we want to cultivate a successful career in any field, we need to sow seeds of hard work, dedication, and continuous learning. 

Sowing the seeds right requires a combination of intention, mindfulness, patience, and adaptability. When we approach our lives with these qualities, we can pave the way for a bountiful harvest of success, happiness, and fulfillment. Therefore, it is important to sow the right seeds to foster positive growth, success, and we can create a brighter future and reap the rewards of our efforts.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

There is always a reason to smile.

ALWAYS LOOK ON THE BRIGHTER SIDE

Life can be tough sometimes, and it is easier to get caught up in negativity and despair than to appreciate the things that are working in our lives. No matter how hard things may seem, there is always a bright side to focus on. Looking on the bright side does not mean ignoring or denying the challenges we face. It means shifting our focus to the positive aspects of a situation and finding ways to turn obstacles into opportunities.

Gratitude is one of the best ways through which we can see the brighter side of things. When we appreciate what we have, even in the midst of difficult times, we begin to see the good in our lives. It may be as simple as being grateful for a roof over our heads, food on our plates, or the support of loved ones. When we focus on the positive, we shift our mindset from what we do not want, to what we want, and attract more positivity into our lives.

Another way to look on the bright side is to view setbacks, challenges, and failures as opportunities for growth, and development. Instead of dwelling on our mistakes, and the loses we might have had, we should look at the experiences we have gained, learn from them and use our new knowledge to become better versions of ourselves. Every challenge we face is an opportunity to learn and grow, and by embracing this mindset, we become more resilient and better equipped to handle future challenges.

It is also very important to surround ourselves with positive people and influences. Negative attitudes and energy can sap our motivation and drag us down, but being around positivity and optimism can lift us up and inspire us to be our best selves. We must be careful of those we allow around us, the voices we listen to, and the ears we speak to, they can be major deflectors of what and how we perceive and interprete different situations and circumstances. No matter how tough things may seem, there is always a bright side to focus on and strive towards.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Create your dream.

FILL UP YOUR BARRELS.

Life is like a barrel, and every moment we experience flows into it, filling it up with experiences, memories, and emotions. Like a barrel, our capacity for living encompasses what we can hold - good and bad, and all the in-betweens. Our challenge is to fill it with more of the positive experiences while pushing out the negative influences. Imagine for a moment that the barrel is empty and waiting. You start filling it up slowly with moments of joy, laughter, and positive interactions with people.

Every day, you add to it, filling it up more and more as you experience new things. Eventually, the barrel reaches its capacity, and all the positive experiences become the foundation of your life, shaping who you are and how you view the world.

What about the negative experiences that come our way? The ones that can easily dominate our thoughts and emotions? We must work diligently to push those negative experiences out of our barrels, making room for more positivity. This means recognizing and acknowledging the negative experiences but not dwelling on them. It means setting them aside and moving forward, filling your barrel with a more positive outlook.

When you fill up your barrels with positive moments, your life will flourish, and you will be better equipped to handle life's ups and downs. Having a barrel full of positive experiences provides the strength and resilience you need to push through life's challenges. You become equipped to seize those new, exciting opportunities that come your way. And when the negative experiences try to invade your life, you can confidently face them, knowing that you have a powerful reserve of positivity to draw from. Even when negative experiences come your way, do not let them occupy your life barrel for long. This will help you to be better poised to face whatever comes your way and conquer any obstacle that confronts you. So, go ahead and start filling up your barrels today with positivity, joy, and love.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Be the real you.

DON'T WISH YOU WERE SOMEONE ELSE, WISH YOU ARE YOUR REAL SELF.

It is natural to experience some moments of self-doubt, fear, and lack of requisite skills to scale through some hurdles, and attain certain heights, we therefore tend towards envying other people's achievements and personality. We may find ourselves comparing our lives, successes, or appearance to those of others and wish that we were more like them. However, this type of thinking can prevent us from reaching our full potential and hinder our personal growth.

Instead of wishing to be someone else, it is important to focus on becoming our real selves. This means accepting ourselves for who we are and working towards personal development and growth. We all have unique qualities, strengths, and weaknesses that make us who we are, and accepting ourselves as individuals is essential to our happiness and success. There are no options to who and what you should be but who you already are, you only need to be a better you.

Wishing to be someone else can lead to negative thinking patterns and self-criticism. It is important to shift the focus towards personal growth instead. This can involve setting attainable goals, celebrating individual victories, and working on improving areas of weakness. Becoming our real selves requires self-reflection and acceptance. This means acknowledging our flaws and making changes to improve them, while also celebrating our strengths and unique qualities. It is through this process of self-acceptance and growth that we can reach our full potential and lead fulfilling lives.

Your true self is the you that you have allowed to grow through troubles, challenges, and difficulties; it is the you that never gives up irrespective of what comes your way; it is the you that always look forward into the future, and never takes personal development, and self growth lightly. Never stop working on yourself until you are the best you.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Be flexible.

DON'T FIGHT, FLOW

In today’s fast-paced world, we often find ourselves constantly battling against time and stress, always struggling to keep up with the demands of our hectic lives. We live in a society that values productivity and competition, often glorifying those who can push themselves the hardest and come out on top. However, in this desire to constantly fight and conquer, we often forget one of the most important lessons in life: the power of flow.

Instead of constantly fighting against the currents of life, it is better to step back and let things flow. This does not mean that you should give up or stop trying. Rather, it is about finding your natural rhythm and moving with the currents of life in a more relaxed and effortless way. When you can let go of your resistance and surrender to the flow of life, you can find a sense of peace and tranquility that can be difficult to achieve when you are always fighting against external forces.

Some of the most successful people in the world have demonstrated the power of flow, rather than fighting. Athletes, for example are often able to perform at their peak when they are fully immersed in what they are doing and allow their bodies to do what comes naturally. Even in our daily lives, we can often achieve greater success and happiness when we let go of our resistance and flow with the rhythm of life.

Flowing with life requires a certain level of awareness and mindfulness. It is about being present in the moment and allowing yourself to move in the direction that feels right, without being attached to any particular outcome or result. Learning to flow with life is a valuable lesson that can be applied to all areas of our lives. It requires a certain level of trust in ourselves and the universe around us, but can ultimately lead to a greater sense of peace, happiness, and fulfillment. So, when you find yourself fighting against the current, take a deep breath and remember the power of flow, and just flow.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Activate your greatness.

GREATNESS IS WITHIN YOU

Greatness is often thought of as something that is achieved by only a select few - the talented, the successful, the chosen ones. However, the truth is, greatness is within each and every one of us. We all have unique talents, skills, and qualities that make us great. It is up to us to identify these traits and use them to achieve our goals and impact the world around us. The path to greatness begins with believing in ourselves and our abilities.

Belief in oneself is a powerful tool. When we believe in ourselves, we are more likely to take risks, try new things, and pursue our passions. This leads to discovering strengths and talents that we may not have known existed. Belief in oneself also gives us the motivation and determination to persevere through setbacks and challenges. It is important to remember that greatness does not have to be something grand or monumental.

It can be as simple as helping a neighbor, volunteering in our community, or being kind to someone in need. These small acts of greatness can have a powerful impact on those around us, and ultimately, on the world. Greatness does not come from a place of competition or comparison. Instead of comparing ourselves to others, we should focus on our own unique journey and celebrate our own successes. Each of us has something valuable to offer, and by recognizing our own greatness, we can inspire others to do the same.

When we recognize our unique talents and qualities, and use them to make a positive impact on the world around us, we are beginning to activate our greatness, and giving many others the opportunity to uncover their own inner strength. Greatness does not have to be something grand or monumental, even small acts of kindness and empathy can have a powerful impact on the world. We all possess the potential for greatness within us, it is up to us to unlock it and unleash it onto the world to create a more pleasant environment for all to live

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Only you can stop you.

STOP HOLDING BACK

Life is a precious gift that we have been granted, and we only get one shot at it. Yet, all too often, we hold ourselves back from the things that we truly want, either out of fear, self-doubt, or other limiting beliefs, leading often to feelings of frustration, regret, and unfulfillment. We can break free from the self-imposed prison of holding ourselves back from reaching for the stars and start living our lives to the fullest, but we must be willing and ready to do what it takes to be free.

We need to identify the things that we are holding back on. What are the dreams or goals that we have been wanting to pursue but have been resisting? This can be anything from pursuing a new career, starting a business, traveling to new places, or even expressing our true feelings to someone we care about. Once these have been identified, we need to recognize that the only thing that is holding us back is ourself. We can not control what others think or feel about us, nor can we predict the future with any certainty. What we can control, however, is our own thoughts, intentions, and actions.

We need to ask ourselves: what is the worst that can happen if we take a chance and go after what we want? Are we willing to live a life of regret and unfulfillment just to avoid a little discomfort or uncertainty? The truth is that most of our fears and anxieties are based on imagined scenarios or past experiences. When we take small steps towards our goals, we can build confidence and momentum, and overcome the obstacles that once seemed insurmountable.

We need to adopt a growth mindset, which is characterized by a willingness to embrace challenges and learn from failures. This means being open to feedback, seeking new experiences, and recognizing that there is always room for growth and improvement. We can not be free unless we let ourselves loose, and embrace the truth that we are unstoppable.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Turn your knowledge to actions.

KNOWLEDGE WITHOUT ACTION IS INCOMPLETE

Knowledge is a valuable tool that can open doors to new opportunities, broaden our perspectives, and help us understand the world around us. However, the mere acquisition of knowledge is not enough. Knowledge without action is incomplete and lacks the power to create significant change. To truly benefit from knowledge, it needs to be put into practice. One may gather information on a particular topic, but if it is not utilized in the real world, it remains incomplete.

It is only when we apply what we have learned through our actions, that we realize the full potential of the knowledge we have gained. Without action, knowledge remains stagnant and fails to make an impact. It becomes a mere collection of facts and figures, without any substance or practical value. However, when we take action based on our knowledge, we gain the power to bring about change, solve problems, and make a positive impact.

History is full of examples of knowledge being put into action to make significant changes and progress. From medical breakthroughs to technological advancements, it was the application of knowledge that made it possible. Scientists did not just gain knowledge about electricity, but they put it to use, leading to revolutionary discoveries and inventions.

Without taking action based on knowledge, we miss out on the chance to make a positive impact in the world. Rather than just acquiring knowledge, we should make a conscious effort to apply it in our lives. We should use it to identify challenges and opportunities and take the necessary steps to create positive change. The application of knowledge through our actions is necessary to turn knowledge into something valuable and worthwhile. We should strive to put our knowledge into practice, create changes, and make a positive difference in the world around us.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Deal with your biases.

YOUR STANDPOINT DETERMINES YOUR VIEWPOINT

Your standpoint and beliefs will always shape your perspective about different things, and the way that you view the world. How you feel about a particular issue, what you believe in, and your overall perspective ultimately determine how you interpret events and situations in your life. If you believe that hard work leads to success, you are more likely to view someone's accomplishments as a result of their hard work and dedication.

On the other hand, if your standpoint is that success is only possible through connections and privilege, you might view someone's success as being due to their social status or resources rather than their merit. Your standpoint can even influence the way you interpret facts and evidence. If you believe that climate change is a hoax, you might interpret scientific studies and data as proof that there is no evidence to support the idea of climate change. However, if you believe that climate change is a real and pressing issue, you are more likely to interpret the same data as confirming this belief.

Ultimately, our beliefs and standpoint shape the way we view the world around us. It is crucial, therefore, to take the time to carefully consider our core beliefs and attitudes, and how they might be influencing our perceptions and perspectives. By doing so, we can better understand our own biases and viewpoints and become better equipped to navigate the complex and varied world in which we live.

We must learn to challenge our beliefs and attitudes and remain open to new ideas and perspectives if we are to maintain a balanced and informed understanding of the world around us. We must seek to know more, understand better, and be ready to see life from other people's point of view, and not be too quick to pass judgements, and make conclusions. Broaden your horizon and have a clearer sight to life.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Rise up after every fall.

ALWAYS PICK YOURSELF UP

One of the most challenging aspects of life is dealing with setbacks and failures. Whether it is academic failure, an unfortunate outcome in a job interview, a break, or a missed opportunity, it is easy to feel disappointed and discouraged. However, one of the most important things we can do for ourselves is to always pick ourselves up and keep moving forward.

There are many reasons why picking yourself up is so essential. For one, it helps build resilience and strength. Each time we face a setback and overcome it, we become more confident and better equipped to handle future challenges. Picking ourselves up allows us to learn from our mistakes and make positive changes in our lives. When we don't give up after a setback, we are able to see new possibilities and opportunities that we may not have otherwise noticed. When we are feeling down, we can actually pick ourselves up by looking beyond the current situation into the possibilities of a brighter future.

It is essential to be kind and gentle with ourselves when we are facing a setback. Acknowledge your feelings and give yourself time to process them in a healthy way. Instead of focusing on the negative aspects of the setback, you can try to find the positive lessons that can be learnt from it. This experience can help you grow and become a better person, and if there is something you can do to improve the situation, take immediate action. Be proactive in finding new opportunities and ways to move forward. 

Always reach out for support when you need them, lean on family and friends for emotional support and encouragement. Sometimes a listening ear and kind words can make all the difference. You must also learn to be focused. Do not let setbacks pull you too far off course. Stay focused on your long-term goals and view setbacks as temporary obstacles that has come to teach you some lessons and strengthen you for the journey ahead.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Speak less, listen more.

LISTEN MORE THAN YOU SPEAK

Listening more than you speak is an essential skill for effective communication and building strong relationships. When you take the time to actively listen to others, you show them that you value and respect their perspective. Some benefits of listening more than you speak are:

1. Better Understanding: When you listen attentively to someone, you will gain a better understanding of their point of view, their needs, and their feelings.

2. Improved Relationships: When you show others that you are interested in what they have to say, they will feel heard and valued. This can lead to better relationships and increased trust.

3. Learning Opportunities: Listening to others gives you the privilege of learning from their experiences and perspectives. This can expand your knowledge and help you gain new insights.

Here are a few tips for listening more than you speak:

1. Avoid Interrupting: Interrupting someone while they are speaking can be discouraging and disrespectful. Wait until they finish speaking before responding.

2. Be Present: Show the person you are listening to that you are present in the conversation by making eye contact, nodding, and asking questions.

3. Resist the urge to Judge: Try not to judge the speaker's viewpoint or opinion. Instead, seek to understand it and the reason behind it.

4. Ask Open-Ended Questions: Ask questions that require more in-depth answers. This can help you understand the person's perspective better and shows that you are interested in what they have to say.

5. Use Reflective Listening: Reflective listening involves repeating what the person has said to ensure you have understood their message correctly. This clarifies any misunderstandings, and also shows the speaker that you are actively listening to them.

Listening more than you speak, can help you create meaningful connections with those around you. Active listening allows you to understand the perspective and needs of others, thereby creating a more empathetic and respectful communication environment.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Guard your mind.

CONQUER THE THIEF OF THE MIND

The human mind can be both a wonderful and a very complicated thing. At times, it can help us to achieve incredible feats, while at other times it can hold us back from realizing our full potential. One of the most common and insidious forms of mental obstacles is negative self-talk and self-doubt, which can be likened to a thief that steals our confidence and self-belief.

This “thief” can manifest in different forms - the voice that says you are not good enough, smart enough, or strong enough to achieve your goals. It can also show up in the form of critical self-judgment or negative comparisons with others. If left unchecked, these voices can hold us back from pursuing our dreams, and limit our chances of success.

Recognizing that these negative voices are not the truth, is one of the major and most important action that must be taken to conquer the thief in the mind. These thieves are simply thoughts that we allow to gain power over us by believing them. We need to question the validity of such thoughts and challenge them with rational and positive counterthoughts. We also need to practice self-compassion. Acknowledging that no one is perfect, we should be kind to ourselves when we make mistakes and approach challenges with self-love and understanding. This can help us break the cycle of negative self-talk and nurture a positive and growth mindset.

Another way to conquer the thief in our minds is to cultivate positive habits and attitudes. By focusing on our strengths and putting in the work to develop new skills, we can build the confidence and resilience needed to overcome difficult situations. We should also surround ourselves with people who support and encourage us, and not those who bring us down. By taking a proactive approach to our mental wellbeing, we can break free from the limiting beliefs and negative patterns of thought that hold us back, and achieve the success and happiness we desire.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Flaunt your scars.

SCARS ARE STAMPS OF VICTORY

Every human is unique in different ways, and their uniqueness is borne out of their history, their journey through life. Whether that journey has been smooth sailing or a bumpy road, it has left a mark on everyone. Some of us bear physical scars, while others have emotional or psychological scars. Irrespective of the scar you carry, they are the stamps of our victories.

Scars represent more than just wounds that have healed. They are evidence of the battles that has been fought and survived. Each scar is a reminder of the pain that has been endured and the courage that has been demonstrated. It symbolizes strength, resilience, and triumph over adversity. It takes time and conscious effort to recover from injuries, both physical and emotional. The healing process can be painful and challenging. When we come out on the other side, we are not the same individuals we were before. Scars remind us of our strength and determination, and the fact that we have survived despite the odds stacked against us.

Scars are often seen as something to be ashamed of, something to be hidden and covered up. However, the truth is that they are a testament to our victories. They are a part of our story, a part of our journey, and emblematic of the challenges we have overcome, we must wear them with pride, and with the confidence that we will overcome whatever is yet staring us in the face.

Some may try to downplay their scars, see them as embarrassing or unappealing, but they are an essential piece of us, and represent our journey and our growth. We should embrace our scars and allow them to tell a story of resilience, self-growth, and personal victories. Scars are much more than just marks on our bodies or memories in our minds, they are emblems. Do not hide your scars, do not see them as disadvantage, but as reminders of how well you have fought, and how good you have become. They are the stamps of your victorious travials.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Embrace the sweetness of childhood.

BE A CHILD

As we grow into adulthood, we often forget the joys and simple pleasures of childhood. We get caught up in the responsibilities of adulthood and forget the carefree days when life seemed full of endless possibilities, when we never worried about the future, or anything else, but believe we will always have everything we want whenever we want them. However, it is important to remember that being a child is not just a stage of life; it is a state of mind that we can tap into at any time.

Being a child means approaching life with a sense of wonder and curiosity. It means not being afraid to explore and take risks, to laugh and play, to make mistakes and learn from them. Children are not burdened by the worries and stresses of adult life, and they live in the present moment without worrying too much about the past or future. They find joy in the simple things, like playing with a new toy or spending time with loved ones.

We can tap into our inner child and live life with more joy and wonder if we let go of our inhibitions and release ourself to be spontaneous. Take a walk in the park and jump in puddles, ride a bike with the wind in your hair, or simply take a break from the daily grind to unwind and do something you enjoy. You can also reconnect with your inner child when you embrace your creativity. Pick up a paintbrush or a pencil and let your imagination run wild, or dance to music without caring about how you look.

Engage in activities that bring you joy, whether it is baking a cake, playing with pets, or building a sandcastle at the beach; cultivate a mindset of wonder and curiosity; spread your hands wide in the wind, and free your mind of everything that inhibits your joy and peace. Consciously live a life full of happiness and fulfillment. So go ahead, be a child, and enjoy the beauty and wonder of life.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Discover who you are.

FIND YOURSELF

Discovering who you are, and what you are meant for is one of the best things you can do for yourself and your society. It can be a very challenging task, but it is the most rewarding journey you can ever embark on. It is about discovering who you are, what you value, and what you want out of life. Here are some steps that can help guide one on the path of self-discovery.

1. Spend time alone: Spending time alone gives you the opportunity to reflect on your thoughts, feelings, and goals. It can also give you a sense of independence and self-reliance.

2. Try new things: This can help you discover what you enjoy and what you don't. It can also help you step out of your comfort zone and grow as a person.

3. Reflect on your past: When you reflect on your past experiences you will be able to identify the patterns, strengths, and weaknesses in your life. It can also give you insight into how you have grown and changed over time.

4. Identify your values: Identifying your values will help you make choices that align with your beliefs and bring you closer to the person you want to be.

5. Pursue self-improvement: Self-improvement is the surest hack to help you grow as a person and become the best version of yourself. You can improve yourself by reading self-help books, taking classes, or working with people who are willing and ready to help you grow.

6. Embrace your uniqueness: Every one has a unique quality, embracing yours will help you appreciate and celebrate what makes you different from others. It can also give you a sense of confidence and self-acceptance.

7. Surround yourself with positive influences: When you surround yourself with people who support and inspire you, it will help you stay on track and motivate you on your journey to self-discovery.

Finding yourself is a lifelong journey that requires patience and self-compassion. It is about learning, growing, and evolving as a person. Stay committed to this process, keep evolving, and trust that you will ultimately discover who you are meant to be.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Solve problems, don't create more.

BE A SOLUTION PROVIDER

Challenges and problems are an inevitable part of our lives and existence. How we choose to approach these challenges determine how successful we will be in solving them. Successful people are not just problem finders, but they have also mastered the act and art of solving problems. They actively search for solutions and do not give up until they find them.

To be a problem solver, you need to be able to stay calm and focused, even in the midst of chaos and uncertainty. This means that you should be able to think clearly, even when under pressure. You should also be able to approach problems with a positive and proactive mindset. By doing so, you will be able to see opportunities where others only see obstacles.

Perseverance is a key ability of solution providers. You must ready to keep pushing until a solution is found. This may mean trying different approaches or seeking out additional resources. You must learn the art of resourcefulness and be creative in your problem-solving approach. There are always multiple solutions to a problem, and it is up to you to find the best one. Effective communication is a key skill you must also learn if you want to be a problem solver. You must be able to communicate clearly and persuasively to others, especially those who may be able to help you solve the problem. This involves being a good listener, as well as being able to express your ideas clearly and coherently.

One who wants to become a solution provider must be open to learning and self-improvement. You must be ready and willing to constantly seek new knowledge and skills that can help you become better equipped to solve problems. Open mindedness to learning will help you to be able to identify new solutions and be innovative in your problem-solving approach. Being a problem solver will enable us bring solutions to societal and global challenges, thereby making the world a better place for all to live.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Understand what you know.

KNOWLEDGE IS NOT ENOUGH, UNDERSTANDING IS NECESSARY

As human beings, we are constantly learning and growing. We accumulate knowledge and wisdom throughout our lives, both by personal experiences and academic pursuits. However, it is important to not just acquire knowledge but to also understand the things that we know. Acquiring knowledge is simply the act of gaining information or skills. It is the first step in our learning process, and it is a very important one.

However, understanding the things that we know takes our learning to the next level. When we understand what we know, we are able to use that knowledge more effectively in our lives. Understanding goes beyond just memorizing facts and figures. It is about taking the time to analyze and internalize the information we have learned. It means connecting the dots between different pieces of information and recognizing patterns and relationships.

When we truly understand what we know, we are able to apply that knowledge in new and creative dimensions. We are able to solve problems, make connections between seemingly unrelated concepts, and come up with innovative ideas. Imagine a doctor who had only memorized medical diagnoses and treatments without truly understanding the underlying concepts of medicine. They would struggle to provide effective treatment plans for their patients as they would not be able to identify the root cause of the ailments.

Understanding allows us to obtain the necessary insight for better decision making. Understanding the basics of our knowledge is a continual process. It takes patience, reflection, and practice. It is important to engage with the material we have learned, asking questions to challenge our current perceptions, and seek to fill any knowledge gaps. It is crucial to gather knowledge, but it is much more important to understand the principles, laws, and source of all that we know. So, in all your getting, get understanding.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Never forget your heroes.

HONOUR THE DESERVING

Honouring those who deserve honour is an important part of any society. It acknowledges the contributions and achievements of individuals who have worked hard to make a difference in their communities or in the world at large. Whether it is a scientist who has made a breakthrough discovery, a teacher who has inspired generations of students, or a social activist who has fought tirelessly for justice and equality, honoring these individuals helps to recognize their efforts and inspire others to follow in their footsteps.

Honouring the deserving is not just about giving recognition for individual achievements, it is also about recognizing the power of collective action. The accomplishments of these individuals are often the result of collaboration and teamwork, and by honoring them, we can acknowledge the importance of working together for a common purpose. This can be a powerful incentive for others to join in the effort and work towards achieving important goals.

When we honour those who are deserving, it can also bring attention to important issues and challenges facing our society that has previously been neglected. A person or group that has been overlooked or marginalized due to social or economic factors may now be recognized and celebrated, bringing attention to the need for greater equity and inclusion. Some who have paid the ultimate price for a just course need also not be forgotten. They gave their lives to better that of others.

Honouring and remembering those who deserve honour, those who have given the best of themselves to others is also an opportunity to inspire the next generation. By celebrating the accomplishments of individuals who have made a significant impact in their society, we can inspire young people to follow their dreams and pursue the greater good. It sends the message that hard work, compassion, and dedication to a worthy cause can create positive change in the world.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Look forward to a brighter future.

BETTER DAYS AHEAD

Many times, we face challenges and difficulties that leave us feeling stuck and unable to see the light at the end of the tunnel. It is always easy to get lost in the present moment and forget that better days are ahead. But, the truth is, no matter how difficult the present may seem, there is always hope for a brighter future. Tomorrow holds so much for us that we may be unable to imagine or comprehend the depth and wealth of what is behind the curtains of today.

When we face difficult times, it's vital to remember that nothing lasts forever. The pain, stress, and anxiety we may be experiencing will eventually dissipate. We can find solace in the knowledge that we have the strength and resilience to weather any storm. We can draw inspiration from individuals who have overcome tremendous adversity and persevered to achieve their dreams.

There are some practical steps we can take to help us realize that the days are ahead will surely be better. We can make a list of the things we are grateful for and focus on the positive aspects of our lives. We can set achievable goals and take action towards them, no matter how small the steps may seem. We can also try new activities, hobbies, and experiences to break free from our current routine and open ourselves up to fresh opportunities.

It is also important to surround ourselves with people who lift us up and support us through tough times. Sharing our struggles and anxieties can help us gain perspective and feel less alone. It is okay to ask for help from those who are sincerely rooting for you. As long as you do not quit grinding, as long as you do not slow down on your race towards your destination, you will soon be closer to the better days than you can imagine. Even if you slow down, do not quit, just keep moving, soon you will see the light shining bright at the end of the tunnel.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Live the life of your dream.

LEARN TO LIVE A GOOD LIFE

Living a good life is something that many people aspire to, but it can be difficult to know how to pursue it. Those who live good lives have mastered the art of doing so, and if you must be one of them, certain principles must be adhered to. Here are a few of them:

1. Focus on gratitude: People who focus on what they are thankful for tend to be happier and more fulfilled. Take time each day to think about what you are grateful for and express that gratitude to those around you.

2. Develop meaningful relationships: Strong, meaningful relationships with others are an important part of a good life. Cultivate friendships, be open to meeting new people, and make time for the people you care about, creating memories, and meaningful connections.

3. Pursue your passion: Spend time doing the things that bring you joy and fulfillment. Whether it is a hobby, a job, or a cause, it is important to have and do the things that give your life purpose and meaning.

4. Cultivate resilience: Life is full of ups and downs. You are all smiles today, and tomorrow everything seems dark and gloomy. Learn how to navigate difficult times by building resilience through mindfulness practices, self-care, self-reflection, and building a positive mindset.

5. Prioritize your health: Taking care of your health is key to living a good life. That means getting regular exercise to maintain a good shape, eating well and appropriately, getting enough sleep, and managing stress.

6. Live in the present: Practice mindfulness, be alive, and focus on being fully present in the moment. It is easy to get caught up in the unpleasant events of the past or anxious about the future, but the only moment that truly exists is the present.

Everyone have differing definitions of what a "good life" is to them, so take time to reflect on what that looks like for you. Seek out and cherish the experiences, relationships, and activities that make you happy and fulfilled and make decisions that align with dreams, visions, and values.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Stick to your genius.

DON'T TRASH YOUR GENIUS

We all have a spark of genius within us, a unique set of talents, skills, and capabilities that make us who we are. Unfortunately, the pressures of modern society often lead us to believe that conformity is more important than creativity, and that fitting in is more important than being ourselves. As a result, many of us end up discarding our genius and settling for a life that is less than what we are capable of.

The truth is, each of us is born with a purpose, a calling that is uniquely ours to fulfill. Our genius is what allows us to express that calling, to create, innovate, and make a difference in the world. Whether it is through writing, art, music, sports, science, or any other area of endeavor, our genius is what enables us to bring our best selves to the table and leave a lasting impact on the world around us.

However, going against the grain and pursuing our passions can be a scary prospect. The fear of failure or rejection can be overwhelming, and the pressure to conform can be difficult to resist. That is why it is so important to remember to value and nurture our genius, to hold onto our passions and embrace our unique identity. Don't trash your genius. Instead, cultivate it. Take the time to discover your innate talents and interests, and find ways to express them in your life.

Surround yourself with people who support and encourage your creativity, and seek out opportunities to learn and grow in your areas of passion. Always remember that your genius is valuable and important. It is a reflection of who you are, and it has the power to change the world. So, don't be afraid to let your light shine, to embrace your uniqueness, and to pursue your passions with courage and conviction. After all, life is too short to live it any other way.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

You can always start afresh.

NEVER TOO LATE TO START AGAIN

Life is full of twists and turns, unexpected changes, and surprises. Sometimes, we find ourselves at a crossroads, wondering if we have made the right choices, if we are on the right path, or if it is too late to start over. The truth is, it is never too late to begin again. No matter where you are in your journey, no matter what mistakes you have made or what obstacles you have overcome, there is always an opportunity to start fresh and create a new beginning.

It can be scary to take a leap of faith and make a change, especially if you have been in the same place for a long time. Perhaps you have been in the same job for years but feel unfulfilled. Maybe you are in a relationship that is not working out, or you are living in a place that no longer feels like home. Whatever the situation may be, it is important to remember that you have the power to change it. You are not trapped in your current circumstances. It is never too late to pursue a new career, end a toxic relationship, or move to a new place where you can thrive.

Starting over can be a daunting task, but it is also an opportunity to rediscover yourself, find new passions, and create a life that feels authentic and fulfilling. Yes, it may be a challenge at times, but the rewards of taking the leap are immeasurable. It is always misconceived that starting again means starting from scratch, but that is not the case. You bring with you all the experiences, skills, and lessons you have learned over the years. You have a unique perspective and talents that no one else can replicate.

You should never compare yourself to others or feel like you are behind in life. Everyone's journey is different, and there is no timeline or deadline to have it all figured out. What matters most is that you are true to yourself and following your own path. So, if you are feeling stuck or like you are ready for something new, remember that it is never too late to start again. Take the first step towards the life you want, know that you have the power to create your own destiny, and trust in the journey ahead.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Go with the trends.

AN EVER CHANGING WORLD

The world is changing at an unprecedented pace. From advancements in technology to shifts in social attitudes and environmental policies, the global landscape is constantly evolving. Technology has been a driving force in shaping the world we live in today. The rise of smartphones, social media, and streaming services have changed the way we communicate, consume media, and navigate the world around us. The impact of technology is felt in nearly every aspect of our lives, from education and healthcare to transportation and commerce.

Along with advances in technology, there have been significant societal changes as well. Attitudes towards gender, sexuality, and identity have shifted, leading to changes in laws and cultural norms. There is also an increased awareness of social and environmental issues, leading to greater advocacy and activism for change. However, the world is also facing significant challenges that threaten the progress that has been made.

Climate change, political polarization, and economic inequality are just a few examples of the issues that require urgent attention and action. As the world continues to change, it is important to stay informed and engaged. We should be encouraged to embrace new ideas and technologies, but also to ask critical questions and consider the long-term impacts of these changes. When we work together to address the challenges we face, we can continue to shape the world in a positive way and create a brighter future for generations to come.

The world is ours to build, the world is ours to shape, we must not be left behind in the ever dynamic scope of things, learning, growing, and developing with the fast paced movement of events. The world is changing, and so must we. We must embrace the opportunities and challenges that lie ahead with optimism, creativity, and a commitment to creating a better world for all.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Follow the right person.

FOLLOW THOSE WHO KNOW THE ROAD

It is often said that the best way to achieve success in life is to follow those who have already walked the path before us. Such people are known to have the experience, knowledge, and expertise required to navigate the rough terrain of life. Following in their footsteps can enable us to learn from their successes and failures, adopt their best practices and strategies and ultimately achieve our own goals.

When we follow people who know the road, we can avoid many of the pitfalls and mistakes they might have experienced along the way. We can learn from their past experiences and use that knowledge to make informed decisions. We can also benefit from their connections and relationships, which can open doors and provide us with opportunities that we may not have had otherwise.

However, it's crucial to acknowledge that blindly following someone without considering our own goals, values, and interests can be counterproductive. We must have clarity about what we want to achieve and ensure that the people we follow share the same values and align with our goals. We should also seek out individuals who challenge us and push us beyond our comfort zone, rather than those who merely reassure us.

Another essential aspect of following those who know the road is staying open-minded and adaptable to new ideas and change. We may encounter situations that the people we are following did not face, and we have to be ready to pivot and adjust our approach. In doing so, we can adopt new strategies and perspectives that can lead us to success in ways that we may not have initially considered. When you follow those who know the road, you have the opportunity to gather wisdom that can not be gotten cheaply which will eventually help you navigate the journey smoothly, easily, and in a more effective manner.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Succeed on purpose.

HARDWORK IS THE FUEL TO SUCCESS

Whether you are pursuing a career, studying for an exam, or striving to reach a personal goal, there is no substitute for hard work. With hard work comes dedication, perseverance, and the desire to push ourselves beyond our limits. Many of us have experienced times when we have toiled endlessly to achieve something we desire. Perhaps we have pulled through the night to study for an exam, or spent countless hours working on a project or goal.

These experiences can be challenging, and there may be times when we feel like giving up. However, it is this very persistence and determination that eventually leads to success. Hard work is the foundation upon which success rests. Success is not something that is handed to us on a silver platter; it is something we must work tirelessly to achieve. While talent, intelligence, and resources are undoubtedly important, hard work is what separates successful individuals from those who fall short.

Working hard requires discipline, focus, and a willingness to make sacrifices. It has to do with dedicating our time, energy, and resources towards achieving our goals, even when the going gets tough. It means setting achievable goals, developing a plan of action, and executing that plan with precision. Moreover, hard work is not just about working harder; it is also about working smarter. It means taking the time to assess our strengths and weaknesses, identifying areas where we need to improve, and developing a strategy to overcome those challenges.

A hard working man is always seeking out opportunities for growth and learning, and is continually striving to become better at whatever he does. Hard work is undoubtedly the fuel to success. We can achieve anything we set our minds to, and consistently pursue with our hearts, if we will work hard for it. In the words of Dwayne Johnson, "Success is not always about greatness. It is about consistency. Consistent hard work leads to success."

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Life is a fickle thing.

THE FICKLENESS OF LIFE.

We go through our days with a sense of certainty, believing that everything is going as planned, only to be hit with unexpected twists and turns that turn our world upside down. It is easy to get lost in the illusion of control that we create for ourselves. We plan out our future, set goals, and make to-do lists, believing that if we just work hard enough, we can achieve anything we want. However, life often has different plans for us, and it is these unexpected moments that truly define who we are and how we respond to adversity.

The truth is, life is unpredictable. We can never be certain of what is going to happen or when things will change. Sometimes, it is the smallest things that can completely alter the course of our lives. A chance encounter, a split-second decision, or a simple twist of fate can all lead us down a path we never expected to take. It is in these moments of uncertainty, we have a choice to make. We can either cling to our plans and expectations and resist the change that is happening around us, or we can embrace the unknown, stay open to new experiences, and trust that the journey we are on is leading us where we are meant to go.

It is crucial to remember that our time on this earth is limited. Life is short, and we never know how much time we have left. This realization should give us a sense of urgency and motivate us to make the most of every moment we have. Live your life to the fullest, and leave an impact that will live long even after you are gone.

In the end, life is a beautiful and mysterious journey filled with ups and downs, twists and turns. We may find ourselves on top of the world one day and struggling to get by the next. But through it all, we must stay present, stay grateful for the moments of joy and growth that come our way, and stay hopeful for what the future may hold. Life is fickle, but it is also full of possibilities, privileges and opportunities. The key is to stay open to all that life has to offer and to embrace the journey, no matter where it takes us.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Failing is a step towards success.

FAILURE IS NOT FATAL

Failure is an inevitable part of life, and everyone experiences it at some point in their lives. However, some people see failure as a crushing blow to their self-esteem and confidence. The truth is, failure is not fatal, and it can be used as a stepping stone towards success. Failure can be an opportunity for growth. It is through failure that people learn valuable lessons and gain new insights into what works and what does not. Failure allows individuals to re-evaluate their strategies, build resilience and tenacity, and, most importantly, try again with better knowledge, experience, and approach.

Sometimes, failure can be the starting point for success. It is often seen that successful people have faced numerous failures before attaining their goals. Failure can be viewed as an opportunity to gather feedback and objective criticism, adjust perspectives and ideas, refine approach and strategies, and stay focused on the ultimate goal. Through determination and persistence, failure can lead to success.

Failure when properly harnessed can help develop one's character. It is through failure that people develop grit, perseverance, and determination. Failure allows individuals to find their inner strength and develop a growth mindset. When one embraces failure and learns from it, they become more resilient, adaptable, and able to face challenges with greater confidence.

Failure is not a dead end, but rather a temporary setback. It provides an opportunity for growth, a starting point for success, and a chance for character development. When failure is embraced positively, it can lead to better outcomes, greater success, and personal development. Therefore, one should not fear failure but instead, learn from it, stay resilient, and continue pushing forward until the ultimate goal is achieved.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.

Embrace emptiness.

EMPTINESS BEFORE FULLNESS

Life is a journey that takes us through different experiences, emotions, and states of being. Sometimes, we may feel a sense of emptiness, a void, or a lack of fulfillment in our lives. This feeling of emptiness can arise due to various reasons, a loss, a failure, a change, or simply as a result of our own inner struggles. However, the feeling of emptiness is not something that should be feared or avoided.

In many ways, the emptiness we feel can be a powerful and transformative force that allows us to grow, evolve, and ultimately find new sources of fulfillment and joy. The state of emptiness is often a natural precursor to fullness. Just as a seed needs to be planted in the soil, buried deep within the darkness, and left to germinate before it can grow into a beautiful plant, our lives too sometimes need to go through a period of emptiness before we can find new growth and fulfillment.

It is during these moments of emptiness that we have the opportunity to reflect deeply on our lives, values, and priorities. We may question our beliefs, our choices, and our paths, and this introspection can help us gain a new sense of clarity and purpose. We tend to learn more about ourselves during these periods of emptiness. We learn more about our strengths, weaknesses, and limitations. We may develop a deeper sense of empathy and compassion towards ourselves and others. We may then begin to discover new opportunities, relationships, and experiences that bring us joy and fulfillment.

Embracing emptiness can be challenging, and vulnerability that come with it is never an easy thing to bear. We may feel anxious, scared, or hopeless during these times. However, it is essential to remember that the emptiness is temporary, and with patience, self-care, and time, we will emerge from it stronger, wiser, and more fulfilled. Do not despise your present situation, learn to live in the moment, but never cease to grow, your emptiness will soon become an overflow.

Kamikun John, Author 366 days of wisdom.