366 days of wisdom (November 10, 2020)

Day 315 of wisdom

“Each man is the architect of his own fate.”

Appius Claudius

A man's life is determined by no one else other than himself, no one has any right over another man's present or future, whatever you will receive, have, or become in life will be determined by your own actions and inactions. You are solely responsible for your own life and whatever will become of it, you therefore must ensure that the decisions you make are absolutely yours and not the product of another man's thought for you or about you.

The key to leading a successful life is taking responsibility, deciding on what you want for your self, sticking to it, prioritising it, and taking necessary action towards ensuring that you achieve that which you sincerely want. As long as you deny yourself the privilege of taking responsibility for your life, and hand over that privilege to another man, you will never be happy with yourself, life will never turn out the way you want it to. Decision making is an integral aspect of taking responsibility for your life, you must be willing and ready to take decisions that will move you in the direction of your dreams. 

As H. K. Abell would say,, "If you can take responsibility for your own life, then you will begin to realize that you can change it." The moment you discover that you are responsible for your life and start to take responsibility, that moment you become powerful such that you will begin to see how drastic things can change in your favour. Never blame anyone for your misery, failure, and disappointments, doing so gives them the right to determine your happiness and peace of mind, it is an escape from taking responsibility, as Craig Lounsbrough said, "Blame is the coward’s solution to his fear of accountability." 

Never be scared of taking responsibilities, it is your power to creating the life of your dreams, it opens your mind to abundance of creativity, and helps you decide what you want for your life. "Concern yourself more with accepting responsibility than with assigning blame. Let the possibilities inspire you more than the obstacles discourage you." was Ralph Marston advice for being responsible, and it should be seriously considered and taken to heart. Take responsibility; it is where your powers live.

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John Kamikun.