Sunday, 2 August 2015



SELF-ESTEEM:



A Persons overall subjective emotional evaluation of his or her own self, a judgment of yourself as well as the attitude you put up towards yourself and other people. There exists two sides to self-esteem, the positive and negative sides. As good as self-esteem may be its negativity can be damning, demoralizing and self-destructive. Positive self-esteem is therefore a very important ingredient for successful people. Positive self-esteem is about building a mental picture of who you want to be and start acting in that manner, you must comport yourself in an honorable way depicting who you want to be and how you want to live your life, your speaking, dressing and way of life should be tailored towards that big picture of yourself in the future. You must thereby be ethical in the application of self-esteem, as the bible says "pride goes before destruction" self-esteem must not be mixed with pride. 

Happiness is found when a person stop comparing himself or herself  to other people, you must also make sure you don't see yourself through the eyes of those who don't value you, you must know your worth even if they don't. Having a positive self-esteem will enable you to take up the challenges of facing difficult tasks and completing them, even when you fail at difficult tasks ,you should recall that failure is an event not a person and a person is a failure only when he or she stops trying.
Remember:
"When people believe in themselves they have the first secret of success". ~Norman Vincent Peale.
"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face". ~Eleanor Roosevelt.


May the goodness of the universe never elude us, Amen.
Ogunjobi Kamikun (@kammykroxx)

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